So many times when I was a teenager and even now, he would tell me:
-Getting married at 28 is late
-Every man gets married at 25
-You cannot get a women if you are single at 29
-He doesn't accept me getting married between 30-32, he's just not willing accept it
-He says if I'm single at 30, all the 20 year old females will be gone, what about the females aged between 25-31?
-EVEN when I was 21, he would tell me to get married by 26, I felt uncomfortable, I felt he was controlling me.
It's acceptable in my culture to marry at that age, even females in my culture are getting married at 31.
Once again, he really is not willing to accept me getting married between 30-32, doesn't he want me to be happy?
i've told him I'm looking to pay for my own wedding, even then, does he think I'm going to be rejected by every female?
When my sister goes out, and she's an 27 year old independent adult, he cried last time because he is afraid of what people think of him.
I will never understand his mindset, I feel he must not value me or he must listen to what other people have to say about me including his brothers.
So why?
He is the Moon is in the 7th of other people, quincunx venus, mars, opposing the 11th lord of social circles, he is trine the 4th lord of family. Maybe he just listen's to what other people have to say about me and he believes them?
I am debilitated, but I have mutual reception with mercury and I have Jupiter in my house.
Your comments appreciated
-Getting married at 28 is late
-Every man gets married at 25
-You cannot get a women if you are single at 29
-He doesn't accept me getting married between 30-32, he's just not willing accept it
-He says if I'm single at 30, all the 20 year old females will be gone, what about the females aged between 25-31?
-EVEN when I was 21, he would tell me to get married by 26, I felt uncomfortable, I felt he was controlling me.
It's acceptable in my culture to marry at that age, even females in my culture are getting married at 31.
Once again, he really is not willing to accept me getting married between 30-32, doesn't he want me to be happy?
i've told him I'm looking to pay for my own wedding, even then, does he think I'm going to be rejected by every female?
When my sister goes out, and she's an 27 year old independent adult, he cried last time because he is afraid of what people think of him.
I will never understand his mindset, I feel he must not value me or he must listen to what other people have to say about me including his brothers.
So why?
He is the Moon is in the 7th of other people, quincunx venus, mars, opposing the 11th lord of social circles, he is trine the 4th lord of family. Maybe he just listen's to what other people have to say about me and he believes them?
I am debilitated, but I have mutual reception with mercury and I have Jupiter in my house.
Your comments appreciated
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