Are you still in contact with this person?Hi! I know this forum is old but I just wanted to pipe up in case anyone is fretting those "doomy"-sounding aspects within the composite chart... I just checked back on my composite with my *favorite* ex , relationship of ~3 years, and we had composite ASC square Uranus (2 degree orb) and composite ASC square Neptune (5 degree orb), though that one's a little wide. We were on and off at times, and had to be long distance for a year, which indeed screams URANUS but the ups and downs were by no means unworkable -- in fact I'd say he was one of the most stable and reliable influences in my life, I always knew I could count on him and stability/feeling supported by one another was a pervasive feeling in our relationship. Overall I'd say any ups and downs we had were completely necessary as they helped us grow through our relationship and as individuals. We had a good amount of positive aspects as well that may have served to counterbalance.
Anyway, if you have composite Uranus-sq-Asc with your love, fear not! It's amazing what can work out when both people try.
I checked my files and found at least 4 composites of couples who stayed together for over 30 years with Pluto square or opposed their Comp. ASC. I have attached the charts for all to see.Two are people I know well, family or friends: they are the "Dick and Jane" couple and the "Sam and Dave" couple (aliases.) Two are celebrities. So their are apparently exceptions to your "rule" but that usually is the case in astrology. All of these charts however show that the 1. good aspects far outweigh the negative, 2. the Nodes are either in the Sun or stellium or square it or on the Moon, 3. the Moon is not burdened with more than one difficult aspect4. luminaries are not in H6 or H12- all of which contribute to longevity.
I did not include two others that might be considered exceptions : Oprah with Steadman Graham where Pluto is 7 degrees from being to the ASC and Oprah with Gayle King (a lifelong friendship )where Uranus is opposite the Asc.
That is I would do too. My neighbours have Venus Sq Uranus double whammy, Mars Sq Mercury Double Whammy,Venus Opp Saturn among many other hard aspects. They still love each other after 20 years together.Maybe I'm just too romantic but I would never leave a relationship or change my mind about it just because an astrologer (most likely not a professional) on the internet told me to. If it doesn't work, I'd rather see for myself. That's not to say I don't think a composite chart has it's value, it def does but a lot also depends on the natal charts of the individuals and the maturity level of the people involved. Also, I could have the best synastry with someone on paper but if we have nothing in common... probably won't work!
That is I would do too. My neighbours have Venus Sq Uranus double whammy, Mars Sq Mercury Double Whammy,Venus Opp Saturn among many other hard aspects. They still love each other after 20 years together.
Saturn opposite Asc it says. But how much wide should the orb be?
I have a composite with Gemini Asc 0 Degrees.
Saturn 11 degrees in Sagg, in 7th house. So 11 degrees is too wide I hope?
After years of doing synastry and composite charts, I've learned that the easiest way to see if the relationship SERIOUSLY won't work is by looking at the composite chart and seeing if the Ascendant is square/opposite Pluto or Saturn or Uranus.
I've learned that for severely negative relationships, the composite chart's ASC was either square Saturn by 0 degrees or square Pluto.
I would say to avoid relationships like these by all costs =P. The pluto aspect changes your life forever.
I use natal chart interpretations to interpret my composite chart aspects.
Saturn Opposite ASC: This is a difficult aspect for two people. The two of you may feel as if you are unable tor elate as a team. You both feel there are great barriers between you that make it difficult to relate to each other.
External circumstances may make the relationship impossible. Or perhaps there is a great age gap between you.
I have this aspect in the progressed composite - Saturn square ASC & there's a significant age gap between us + we live far away from each other and it seems like external circumstances will be very much in a way of making this union work & stay within the physical realm, I don't see any other signs of that aspect manifesting between us (unable to elate as a team/barriers etc)
anyone knows anything else about this aspect?