I've been trying to make steps towards reconciling with my ex and whilst I can sense he's receptive to me trying, it's almost like he's holding back from coming towards me himself. I cast a chart to see if I can decipher why - I see that both of our significators are weak, preventing action, but I wonder if there are further clues as to why.
He as Mars is combust the Sun, in the sign of my detriment (but about to enter my domicile) - I was inclined to think it's his ego holding him back but as Sun rules his 4th house, I'm not sure this interpretation applies. It wouldn't make sense for it to be his family either so I'm unsure what else it might suggest. His third house ruler just shy off the ascendant confirms my suspicions that he may have been secretly keeping tabs on me on social media.
Any other thoughts?
He as Mars is combust the Sun, in the sign of my detriment (but about to enter my domicile) - I was inclined to think it's his ego holding him back but as Sun rules his 4th house, I'm not sure this interpretation applies. It wouldn't make sense for it to be his family either so I'm unsure what else it might suggest. His third house ruler just shy off the ascendant confirms my suspicions that he may have been secretly keeping tabs on me on social media.
Any other thoughts?