Reviving this since new stuff happened - we're making a plan to move in together in January and I got the exact birth hour.
My question is communication is still a huge problem and both of us are scared of everything that's going on (I'm afraid he'll change his mind, he's afraid I'll change my mind).
I think we care about each other deeply (composite venus trine moon and sun, moon in 7th house), but none of us can actually say/show the other. Is this something that appears in the charts, too? I feel like we're both deceiving each other, hiding feelings and hardly ever acting on our feelings (mainly because we've both been hurt before).
LE: forgot to say that the Pluto/orcus thing appears in my natal chart so it will be there in any composite (checked with ex-bfs).
Thanks!
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