Hi Sorrowful,
Whilst replying here I looked back to your previous posts, seeing those on your 'Chiron in 10th thread' to which you received much good advice.
From Google and your description, AVPD is not a physical rather than a mental/emotional disorder. Perhaps what is necessary is a change in emotional behaviour towards outer situations (Moon influence) and personal mind set (Mercury).
I study the influence of an astrological 'point' in astrology called MEAN Black Moon Lilith
lilth: in astro. com. charts), which has been observed to be of significance in childhood-puberty. As it is a non-physical object, it cannot physically 'cause' anything itself but, as an active inner (often hidden) feeling, can accept the blame for how others feel about it.
In your chart, this astrological point is placed on 23 degrees Gemini. Coincidence that this sign coincides with one's mental thought application and communication ability with others? It is conjunct natal Chiron in Gemini (the inner pain of abstract thought ... e.g..what one thinks is not necessarily realistic (pure Virgo!!). It is therefore part of the T-square conflict between Sun (personal expression) and Uranus (independent thought). Coincidence that the planets are rulers of the 6th and 12th houses? The 6th house can mean 'working upon self' and the 12th house with Leo on its cusp can mean 'finding and being yourself'.
Your own contribution regarding Chiron's position in your chart can help provide you with some answers why this may be causing your difficulties.
Instead of seeing the 'negative' expression of yourself as others may have implanted in your mind, have you never looked at and appreciated the positive qualites the chart implies?
In the progressed chart (1 day after birth = 1 year of life) for the 33rd-34th year of life, the secondary progressed Sun has entered Scorpio. S.p. Mercury (ruler Virgo and Asc.) has been in Scorpio for almost 20 years. Could this coincide with a period when a mental/emotional disturbance began; When you perhaps kept thoughts of discrimination to yourself ? The Sun's new position can help bring all that undercurrent activity into the open, unless you prefer to sink deeper into the mental mire.
Sec. Progr. Mars in Aquarius is forming an exact trine (positive) aspect to natal Mercury. This would be an excellent time to actively work (Mars) on what you might consider a negative mental state (Mercury) to bring about alternate ideas (Aquarius) that can act upon change. Mars in Aquarius can completely detach itself from emotional engagement, which could be good for you. It may even bring about the positive assertiveness within a Moon behaviour pattern.
Diagnosed with AVPD,will ever overcome this or will have it whole life?
That depends upon you! Continue to live with preconceived ideas founded in the past, OR discover your real self and who/how you really are, and employ it. Shy and quiet people can be just as interesting, loveable and charming as macho types.