yeshwanthi.v
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I asked whether you were referring to me because you said in one of your previous posts "can you post a visual chart please?", so I was left wondering if that question was to me or to someone else.In what way???
I asked whether you were referring to me because you said in one of your previous posts "can you post a visual chart please?", so I was left wondering if that question was to me or to someone else.In what way???
Hi everyone! I'm new to this board. I didn't know where else I could post this question so I decided, why not start here.
Although I don't suffer from anger management issues, a lot of people (close friends, family members, acquaintances and the like) have commented that when I do get angry, I'm scary to behold and have known to create quite a storm. Strangers and friends (not-so-close-friends) get the impression from me that I'm aloof, a loner, reserved and silent (but not shy). The very same friends, strangers and acquaintances usually are very shocked to see a totally different side to me when I'm enraged. I don't get angry immediately on issues, unlike many of the very same friends, strangers and acquaintances I'm referring to. It's not that the anger isn't there. It's definitely there, but it takes a long time to build up before I really feel it justified to let it all out. It takes some time for people to really get to me/ get on my nerves. The kind of issues that get to me are anyone who tries to dominate me/treat me like a doormat or rude, uncouth, vulgar, aggressive, violent, verbally/physically abusive behavior, either towards me or someone I love or care about (and in some cases even towards a stranger). Although I have never used physical violence when I'm angry, people still get very intimidated by me/shocked by my behavior when I finally let it loose. I always use words to get my point across (to the person who is trying to get to me) and never use physical violence. People have told me that when I'm enraged I come across as VERY cold and calculating, but bold and dangerous none-the-less. At times I have surprised my own self. Sometimes when I look back at some of the incidents, I'm surprised by my own behavior and wonder about what bought on the sudden spurt of courage/boldness during such situations for someone as introverted as me.
Anyway, my question was: I have read a lot about how Mars in Aries or Scorpio is the best mars-placement in a birth chart. I've come across a lot of astrology articles which praise these placements. And pretty much every astrology book and article I have ever read criticizes the Mars in Libra placement, as it is considered to be a very weak Mars. The reason why this surprises me, is because I have a Mars in Libra.
In case someone wants to have a look at my birth chart, I've given below the details of each planet and the houses and signs they fall in:
Moon connected to Mars gives a temper if it is a challenging aspect.HI
I have mars in libra in 12 th house. I do generally try and keep the peace. the mediator in families/frienships etc. but I too have a temper which surprises those I get close to cos it comes unexpectedly!!!
I find that I do feel for people and often can express anger for disadvantaged quicker than for myself.
then a 12th house placement is different to yours.
Sorry about the confusion.I asked whether you were referring to me because you said in one of your previous posts "can you post a visual chart please?", so I was left wondering if that question was to me or to someone else.
My father has Mars in Libra and did some boxing. It gives balance and grace with movement and especially with one to one sports. It can give variable energy levels and a dislike of confrontation which the person may feel they need to overcome. Very interesting take and I never thought of it that way.IMO boxing and martial arts is great for strengthening Mars Libra. When you know how to fight and feel strong, it allows your impulses to be expressed more easily. IMO Mars Libra people need to build up physical strength and take some kind of martial art or boxing. You will feel more comfortable asserting yourself and also feel more comfortable reacting to someone OVERTLY attacking you.This goes great lengths (speaking from experience) And there are a number of worldclass boxers with Mars in Libra also.
Mars in Libra have a particular problem: It'll tend to be the strongest against the weakest , and the weakest against the strongest , it has the tendency of abusing and be abused around the life of the native.
THe Mars in Libra cited without aspects to it from elsewhere cannot be properly diagnosed or analysed. Statements will be general only and really of no value.Mars in Libra have a particular problem: It'll tend to be the strongest against the weakest , and the weakest against the strongest , it has the tendency of abusing and be abused around the life of the native.
I can see how this applies to the concept of balance- the libran energy could be unleashed as aggression when it needs to balance out perceived weakness in others, yet responds calmly and clear-headed- or weakly and victim-like to other's aggressive energies.Mars in Libra have a particular problem: It'll tend to be the strongest against the weakest , and the weakest against the strongest , it has the tendency of abusing and be abused around the life of the native.
Yes we need a chart, all that data is offputting.Hi,Caro would you like to post your chart so I can see what makes you stand for others?
As I don't think it's only Mars in Libra,I' m not sure it's only Mars in Li..
It could be that you have for example Virgo(cause they can be brave too) and /or Sag..
Let me see that chart of yours(Where is your Moon??).
I agree with what you say about swinging from side to side and wanting to be fair and this can lead to indecisiveness and it does lead to lack of motivation on occasion. I love a debate and repartee with witty remarks. This really turns me on..... Sex has to be done in the right atmosphere, candles, music and flowers......Coarseness, crassness and lack of social ease is a turn off.....The negative side of mars in libra is lack of energy, its not a powerful energiser.
also procrastination ( I certainly weigh up everything before making a choice - with scorpio rising I dig very deep indeed)
I do like an argument/debate though - happy to see all sides!