Hi all,
I'm involved in a very up and down relationship with a LOT of tension arguments, lies, manipulation etc etc which I cannot seem to free myself from. I say me, but I know that the relationship causes him pain too and he probably has issues letting go as well. We aren't officially together now...not since last Christmas, but however much we try to limit our contact (we have a child so contact is necessary) we end up back to spending a lot of social time together and being intimate...and effectivelly behaving just like we would if we were in a relationship, if that makes sense.
My question is, what is our problem? I have posted our synastry and composite charts and you will see that we have some unpleasant mars/sun/mercury aspects and also a mars-moon conjunction, so I guess that probably explains the arguments. But why such a problem letting go and moving on? It's never happened to me before. It's been like this from the begining and now 3 years on I just don't know how to resolve the issue. Is this some sort of karmic thing I have to endure forever??
Appreciate any advice/comments you can offer.
I'm involved in a very up and down relationship with a LOT of tension arguments, lies, manipulation etc etc which I cannot seem to free myself from. I say me, but I know that the relationship causes him pain too and he probably has issues letting go as well. We aren't officially together now...not since last Christmas, but however much we try to limit our contact (we have a child so contact is necessary) we end up back to spending a lot of social time together and being intimate...and effectivelly behaving just like we would if we were in a relationship, if that makes sense.
My question is, what is our problem? I have posted our synastry and composite charts and you will see that we have some unpleasant mars/sun/mercury aspects and also a mars-moon conjunction, so I guess that probably explains the arguments. But why such a problem letting go and moving on? It's never happened to me before. It's been like this from the begining and now 3 years on I just don't know how to resolve the issue. Is this some sort of karmic thing I have to endure forever??
Appreciate any advice/comments you can offer.