Flapjacks
Well-known member
Hi there,
I wanted to start a discussion about how/why we have instant connections with others through the lens of relational astrology.
What types of aspects lead to this, or what charts might show where these occur? Is it just a matter of synastry, or is location and timing also important?
What is it that causes these connections to happen in your experience? Not just astrologically, but personally.
It's just so fascinating. For instance, I met someone on another forum - and from their second or third post something about their view of life struck a chord. We started chatting one-on-one, and the feeling seemed to be mutual. Since then, we've formed a deep bond (platonic). How did we "find" each other like that? It was just so easy... like we already knew one another before we ever met. We push each other to keep looking up even through dark times, support one another's experiences, values and creativity, and it was near-instant vulnerability that way... like we had literally no defense against the other and trust was the only option. How is it possible to love someone so quickly? Not romantic or in an idealized way, necessarily, but just... you know, love them for who they are?
This has happened a number of times through life, and each time feels like a mystery I'll never solve. Why that person, at that moment, and why does it work so well?
I wanted to start a discussion about how/why we have instant connections with others through the lens of relational astrology.
What types of aspects lead to this, or what charts might show where these occur? Is it just a matter of synastry, or is location and timing also important?
What is it that causes these connections to happen in your experience? Not just astrologically, but personally.
It's just so fascinating. For instance, I met someone on another forum - and from their second or third post something about their view of life struck a chord. We started chatting one-on-one, and the feeling seemed to be mutual. Since then, we've formed a deep bond (platonic). How did we "find" each other like that? It was just so easy... like we already knew one another before we ever met. We push each other to keep looking up even through dark times, support one another's experiences, values and creativity, and it was near-instant vulnerability that way... like we had literally no defense against the other and trust was the only option. How is it possible to love someone so quickly? Not romantic or in an idealized way, necessarily, but just... you know, love them for who they are?
This has happened a number of times through life, and each time feels like a mystery I'll never solve. Why that person, at that moment, and why does it work so well?