It's best to first look at the synastry, the two natal charts of the persons involved. After this has been evaluated the composite can give insight into the actual relationship itself.
The composite is a chart that is created from the midpoints of the planets in the two natal charts.
A point in the composite chart could derive from, for example, a trine between the two natal planets, or from a square or opposition. This has to be taken into consideration.
Just looking at this composite, the sun/mercury conjunction would indicate good communications between the two persons, while the mars/saturn opposition sitting on the moon's nodes suggests tensions in the relationship. But that is far from enough to give an evaluation of the relationship.
Oppositions in themselves in the composite are not necessarily negative.
You two have several good aspects together: Sun trine Moon, Venus conj Mars, Venus trine Mercury, Sun trine Venus, Mars Sextie Moon, Sun sextile Mars. I think most of your personal planets are doing great together. However, your Moon also conj her 1H Saturn. Her Saturn also falls into your 5H. You may feel a certain chemistry around her, but have a hard time getting close to her. She may also feel uncertain whether to approach you. The feeling is amplified with her Sun, Mars and Venus falling in your 12H.
Your Pisces Saturn also touches her IC. Do you feel as if she is a bit spacy for you? Hopefully it also trines her Mercury so you and she will have some sort of serious understanding for each other.
I agree with Elena and will just throw in a few more comments.
Your Mars conjunct her 8th house Venus so tightly might be a very intimate, intense physical and emotional bond. It would be something you both want to savour and treasure.
But the opposition to your Neptune/Uranus may leave you questioning how real it is for her, and you.
I think it is real and positive, as that Mars/Venus conjunction is at the midpoint of your Sun/Moon trine. It might be important for you to try and trust the relationship. Express your faith and optimism, instead of doubt or questioning, for best future results.
Your Moon sits on top of her 1st house Saturn. That can be a barrier. She may have a wall up sometimes when you try and ask about your concerns.
Your North Node is conjunct her Ascendant. So is your Pluto and Jupiter. She strongly feels the impact of this relationship but it may feel overwhelming sometimes.
When in doubt, give her space to process things. I think you have a lot of strong, positive synastry. So no need to force things. Let it naturally progress.
I definitely do feel as if she is very uncertain towards me sometimes and this confuses the hell out of me. Some websites talk about planets falling into the 12th house are karmic related? You think this has to do with uncertainty? How will this manifest into reality then is it something that can be brought to the surface something that can grow.
What exactly does it mean that those planets fall into my 12th house
I don't do karmic relationship that much because I have yet to decide whether such thing exists (and beside, I think more about NN in term of anything karmic).
And also, the two planets conjunct your Pluto, which touches her 7H. The feeling is more from you to her then from her to you.
Oops sorry. That's the IC/4H, not DC/7H. The 4H will be a bit more intimate than the 7H. Think of what I said before, in a more intimate way.I'm sorry maybe I'm just not looking correctly (i am a novice afterall) but I don't see anything touching her 7th house because there is nothing there. Just like mine its empty.
Thank you for your time
"I'm sorry maybe I'm just not looking correctly (i am a novice afterall) but I don't see anything touching her 7th house because there is nothing there. Just like mine its empty."
She has moon on the cusp of her 7th, and your south moon's node and part of fortune are there, conjunct.
The idea of a relationship for her is very important, it's where she gets her emotional lift and sense of security.
The south node tends to indicate the past, past lives, what we are leaving behind so we can move forward. This moon/south node conjunction is very important, even more so because it is sitting on her descendent.
Here is a bit of an explanation, see if it hits home to you. It's from cafe astrology.
"When your Moon conjuncts your partner’s South Node, the attraction is instant. You immediately feel safe, secure, and comfortable in each other’s presence. Intuitively, you sense similarity in each other’s emotional reactions to the world, and in your mutual needs for security. At some point in time, the South Node person may get a sense that the Moon person is holding him or her back in some way. There is much safety and comfort in the relationship, and the emotional bond is tremendous, but the bond doesn’t carry with it a sense of moving forward. In fact, you may tend to cocoon yourselves and fall back on familiar routines rather than take on new adventures together. You may have such an effect on each other as to exaggerate each other’s mood swings and desire for safety. If anyone of the two “outgrows” the relationship, it will more than likely be the South Node person. However, the attachment is great and there will be a feeling of emotional indebtedness to each other, particularly on the part of the South Node person. There is a great deal of sympathy between the two of you, and these feelings come naturally.".
"When your Moon conjuncts your partner’s South Node, the attraction is instant. You immediately feel safe, secure, and comfortable in each other’s presence. Intuitively, you sense similarity in each other’s emotional reactions to the world, and in your mutual needs for security. At some point in time, the South Node person may get a sense that the Moon person is holding him or her back in some way. There is much safety and comfort in the relationship, and the emotional bond is tremendous, but the bond doesn’t carry with it a sense of moving forward. In fact, you may tend to cocoon yourselves and fall back on familiar routines rather than take on new adventures together. You may have such an effect on each other as to exaggerate each other’s mood swings and desire for safety. If anyone of the two “outgrows” the relationship, it will more than likely be the South Node person. However, the attachment is great and there will be a feeling of emotional indebtedness to each other, particularly on the part of the South Node person. There is a great deal of sympathy between the two of you, and these feelings come naturally.".