(Following is different than standard horary practice)
The problems (indicated by my methodology) are connected with communication problems (the battling Mars posited in 3rd house of communications) and the retrograde Mercury (significator of communications) and querent's significator, posited in the 12th house (whole sign); this comunications problem is compounded by Venus (dispositor of Mercury and 12th house and always a love significator) while strongly placed in the 1st house, and in defacto conjunction with Mercury, is opposed by sign to the 7th house of long-term relationships; 7th house also contains the martial star, Antares, which certainly influences toward wars and battles; however, Jupiter is ruler of 7th, is posited high in the chart, in its own sign, and the retrograde Mercury is moving back toward it (Jupiter = quesited significator)
So, to me, the relationship is strained but still holding postive (retrograde Mercury also moving back toward Moon while Moon moves forward toward Mercury; querent significator Mercury moving back toward quesited significator Jupiter, which latter is moving forward toward querent's significator) Moon in house of friends and the good spirit, but is disposited by Mars and in the conflict favorable sign of Aries; I would say that the basis of the problems is in the nature of the communications involved. This might ultimately have to do with attempting to carry on this relationship in absentia, via long distance communications but lacking in direct, personal, face to face interaction.