Sun conjunct mars/uranus/neptune nearby Venus/saturn, and all being activated in this period by the transits of Saturn/pluto/jupiter/mars. It's a little like throwing yourself into a pot of hot peppers, isn't it.
Moon/pluto conjunct. Mercury/uranus conjunct. Saturn square mars, square Uranus, square Neptune. Mars/north node conjunct.
At which point sun square moon, moons in out of sign opposition, both help somewhat.
The good news is the sun/jupiter conjunction.
Have you tried doing a composite to see how all this works out in the relationship?