stardust11
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My planets are flipped, sun in sag moon in Aquarius.. but i definitely have all of those characteristics! Very independent thinker.. and I need nonstop movement and stimulation.. I also find that I struggle GREATLY with Venus in Scorpio.. maybe because most of my exterior is so abrasive? .. relationships really haunt me.. obsession is next level.. its always been a part of me I find sooo frustrating..
Through high school I never had a boyfriend. I was training to be a classical ballerina so I really had no social life.. I would obsess over celebrities.. I recall two major obsessions. .. my last year of high school there was one guy who was infatuated with me..I didn't love him back but I accepted his love...stayed together for five years and it was totally toxic. I had two short lived relationships after that with people that liked me but i didn't feel a spark for them.. just because they pursued me... after that i was determined to follow my heart instead of being persuaded by men who wanted me.
I attributed this to a lack of confidence in love, fear of rejection.. fear of loneliness and inadequacy.
There are three relationships with men that I felt strongly for -- pursued ..that never took flight - well maybe two out of the three.. the third was a three year long committed relationship that I never quite felt accepted in -(all with people with Venus in air signs!!) ... obsessed over these men... rose colored glasses... but i always scared them away in the end (naturally) :/ i never full found the balance i needed in relationships...it seems that i either sort of downgrade for someone i feel nothing for... and if i have any feelings what so ever they turn into an overwhelming obsession and i don't know how to handle myself.
i don't know if anyone sees anything in my chart that could explain this for me...or if its just that I've conveniently fallen for men who are naturally detached. maybe i just really need the affection from a fellow Venus in water character- but i always felt that when i couldn't have the love i wanted i experienced crippling pain... overwhelming sadness and obsessive thought about the sadness instead of trying to be healthy and focus on myself. I am currently dealing with losing the third person i mentioned above right now.. I could upload his chart.. i know most of the reasons it didn't work out.. maybe you guys have additional insight?
Through high school I never had a boyfriend. I was training to be a classical ballerina so I really had no social life.. I would obsess over celebrities.. I recall two major obsessions. .. my last year of high school there was one guy who was infatuated with me..I didn't love him back but I accepted his love...stayed together for five years and it was totally toxic. I had two short lived relationships after that with people that liked me but i didn't feel a spark for them.. just because they pursued me... after that i was determined to follow my heart instead of being persuaded by men who wanted me.
I attributed this to a lack of confidence in love, fear of rejection.. fear of loneliness and inadequacy.
There are three relationships with men that I felt strongly for -- pursued ..that never took flight - well maybe two out of the three.. the third was a three year long committed relationship that I never quite felt accepted in -(all with people with Venus in air signs!!) ... obsessed over these men... rose colored glasses... but i always scared them away in the end (naturally) :/ i never full found the balance i needed in relationships...it seems that i either sort of downgrade for someone i feel nothing for... and if i have any feelings what so ever they turn into an overwhelming obsession and i don't know how to handle myself.
i don't know if anyone sees anything in my chart that could explain this for me...or if its just that I've conveniently fallen for men who are naturally detached. maybe i just really need the affection from a fellow Venus in water character- but i always felt that when i couldn't have the love i wanted i experienced crippling pain... overwhelming sadness and obsessive thought about the sadness instead of trying to be healthy and focus on myself. I am currently dealing with losing the third person i mentioned above right now.. I could upload his chart.. i know most of the reasons it didn't work out.. maybe you guys have additional insight?