Hi,
So after so much dwelling and thinking, I finally initiated my divorce paperwork. The lawyer is still working on them. I had informed my husband about 2/3months in advance but guess he was living in denial, and now when I finally have paid the lawyer, I see him in so much pain. I can understand his worries, but I really don't want to live a life where we are consistently bickering and angry with each other. I see him crying terribly, he is worried about finances, he is worried about the custody, and while I should not care about what he does, I still do care. I want him to be okay. I see him crying on calls and locked himself up in a room, just in so much pain.
I grieved one full year accepting my situation and taking this big step, so I know it is not easy for him. I really want us to be on good terms.
I asked if he is going to be okay soon? Can anybody tell me?
Regards
So after so much dwelling and thinking, I finally initiated my divorce paperwork. The lawyer is still working on them. I had informed my husband about 2/3months in advance but guess he was living in denial, and now when I finally have paid the lawyer, I see him in so much pain. I can understand his worries, but I really don't want to live a life where we are consistently bickering and angry with each other. I see him crying terribly, he is worried about finances, he is worried about the custody, and while I should not care about what he does, I still do care. I want him to be okay. I see him crying on calls and locked himself up in a room, just in so much pain.
I grieved one full year accepting my situation and taking this big step, so I know it is not easy for him. I really want us to be on good terms.
I asked if he is going to be okay soon? Can anybody tell me?
Regards