I'm not sure if Mercury and Jupiter should be in 11th or 12th house. Someone asked me questions and told it's 11th. I hope so but im't not sure about that.
Depends on which house system you use. Porphyry places them in the eleventh. By whole sign, they're in the twelfth. If you play with other house systems, you might get different results.
Whenever I see a planet in one house in one system and another house in another system, I look at where the meanings of those two houses overlap. The eleventh and twelfth houses both have to do with who you become in the long run, the legacy you ultimately leave, and who/what helps you get there. The eleventh house is called the House of Friends because friends are people who help you get where you're going: like minded people who pursue similar goals.
That may not always be true in personal friendships. A personal friend may be someone whose company you enjoy, but don't necessarily share common goals with. They might be someone you share a hobby with, but not serious longterm goals. That kind of friendship is better indicated by the fifth and/or seventh house. When the houses were named, the word friend meant something closer to associate. That meaning has changed over time, but the names of the houses have been kept the same.
Twelfth house has less to do with individuals and more with society as a whole. It represents long ago ancestors--not the grandparents and other ancestors you knew, but the ones who died before you were born, and the legacy you inherited probably without knowing. It represents who you are when you become an ancestor, what you're remembered for. It also represents society as a whole, and spirit, what is beyond society.
With a twelfth house sun, you're likely to be drawn to mystical and spiritual things (even if you prefer not to call them that). You might feel disconnected from the world, because you're so connected to the other world. But you also have great potential to be a symbol that others respond to. Many famous performers and elected leaders have very busy twelfth houses, or twelfth house suns, or both.
Your chart as a whole looks like someone naturally inclined to be solitary a decent amount of the time (Capricorn moon, Taurus rising, twelfth house sun). To connect with others, you would most likely need to be doing something that brings solitary people together....
i generally think it is astute to make friends in activities you enjoy, perhaps it is the time to find new activities? hiking or sports (ultimate frisbee? martial arts? tai chi?) as it's good to establish some regime of movement before your body starts to age.
I second this, and especially second the recommendation of tai chi. I've been practicing for years, and it's not only good exercise (and the rare kind that you can't get too old for--old tai chi players who've been at it for decades are many times better at it than 20-year-olds) it's solitary and social at the same time. Being in a tai chi class with others is an interaction in and of itself, even if you never speak to them personally. You can practice both in a group and alone. It's a spiritual practice, too, a kind of moving meditation, which fits very well with both eleventh and twelfth house themes.
It would also, I think, fulfill your sun, moon, and rising sign needs, and if those needs are being met, you're bound to be happy. Aries needs challenges in order to thrive. Capricorn is driven to accomplish something, and when it's in the ninth house, it's also about the process of learning. Taurus is a very physical sign... with Taurus rising, your spiritual inclinations are likely to need a physical form of expression. Just sitting on a cushion meditating won't do for you.
If you don't actually have any interest in tai chi, maybe a different but similar art would do the trick.
so you're just past your first saturn return..
Not just past, approaching. Natal Saturn is at 20 degrees Sag, and transiting Saturn hasn't quite gotten there yet. It's currently at 15 Sagittarius.
