.I can only share my understanding of Lilith. I have my natal Venus Square Lilith and also Lilith Conjunct Pluto (1 degree orb) in Scorpio, so I've always felt the energy of Lilith being very present in my life.
"Lilith's position tells us about unfulfilled wishes, the suppressed shadow-side of our personality, painful experiences, privation and darkness. As with Pluto, the processes triggered here should lead to self-recognition and the acceptance of our dark side. Good and bad should not be differentiated from each other, but human existence should be seen as many-faceted." - Quote: astro.angeleowyn.eu
They way I understand it is, while Venus represents more the "good girl" archetype within a woman's chart, Lilith represents the "bad girl" aspect. She’s the sexuality that we as women are told to hide, and the female anger we’re told is too much and we shouldn't be having. She's the rebelious nature in a woman's birthchart that doesn't obey. She teaches us to deal with our dark side, to not shy away from the things that we are ashamed of. Acepting ourselves as we are with the good, the bad, and the ugly. In a man's birthchart Lilith can reveal what type of woman he fears most and which type of woman can drive him to despair.
The energy of Lilith can be destructive if used wrong but also be very liberating if used wisely.
With an opposition to another planet, Lilith can be provoking and challenging the other planet's energy and placement (sign/house). This can manifest as an internal struggle. What planet is Lilith in opposition to in your birth chart?
Hi Nice to meet you.I can only share my understanding of Lilith. I have my natal Venus Square Lilith and also Lilith Conjunct Pluto (1 degree orb) in Scorpio, so I've always felt the energy of Lilith being very present in my life.
"Lilith's position tells us about unfulfilled wishes, the suppressed shadow-side of our personality, painful experiences, privation and darkness. As with Pluto, the processes triggered here should lead to self-recognition and the acceptance of our dark side. Good and bad should not be differentiated from each other, but human existence should be seen as many-faceted." - Quote: astro.angeleowyn.eu
They way I understand it is, while Venus represents more the "good girl" archetype within a woman's chart, Lilith represents the "bad girl" aspect. She’s the sexuality that we as women are told to hide, and the female anger we’re told is too much and we shouldn't be having. She's the rebelious nature in a woman's birthchart that doesn't obey. She teaches us to deal with our dark side, to not shy away from the things that we are ashamed of. Acepting ourselves as we are with the good, the bad, and the ugly. In a man's birthchart Lilith can reveal what type of woman he fears most and which type of woman can drive him to despair.
The energy of Lilith can be destructive if used wrong but also be very liberating if used wisely.
With an opposition to another planet, Lilith can be provoking and challenging the other planet's energy and placement (sign/house). This can manifest as an internal struggle. What planet is Lilith in opposition to in your birth chart?