poyi
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Does your 7th house describe your marriage/spouse?
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virgo18
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Im very curious about how the "dispositor" of the ruler of the 7th house works in this matter. No one talks about it like if it were not very relevant.
My 7th ruler is Mercury in Libra in the 10th
The dispositor of the ruler of my 7th is Venus in Scorpio in the 12th, and in my chart Venus rules 11th and 6th.
The guys I've loved and the one I love the most I met them: One by high school friends 11th. And the one I contacted him through internet for achieving working goals of my career.
Venus in the 12th, my relationships have some secretive and private thing at some point.
So I say that the dispositor of the ruler of the 7th can tell a lot of more interesting stuff than only the 7th ruler itself.
And yes... The position of the 7th ruler tell "the path in which you meet the ones you love" but the dispositor tells "how and where". Its interesting
princess valhalla
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My 7th house/descendant is scorpio and my partner for 10 years is a sun scorpio. I appreciate really passionate, intense partners. Uranus conjuncts my DC. I did date an aquarius for a couple of years but obviously that didn't work out! He really was a player. 
lol
5th house is Virgo. Never dated a virgo. Not my romantic type. Although I did have a close male friend with sun, moon and mercury in virgo.
What I have realized is that my 3 closest girlfriends since childhood until now, have all represented my asc, desc and midheaven. Taurus, scorpio and aquarius.
lol 5th house is Virgo. Never dated a virgo. Not my romantic type. Although I did have a close male friend with sun, moon and mercury in virgo.
What I have realized is that my 3 closest girlfriends since childhood until now, have all represented my asc, desc and midheaven. Taurus, scorpio and aquarius.
tokyo.lights
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Not married (yet) but I want to participate!
7th house planets are Saturn&Pluto, 5th house Cancer, Venus&Mars Aries and Juno in Aquarius. A mess
I DEFINITELY find Aries types(not necessarily Aries Suns) incredibly attractive. Give me someone aggressive, direct, fiery and outspoken and I will be obsessing for a while. Meek and mild and quiet does nothing for me sadly…unless he’s kind and sweet, and needs protecting, in which case I become the Aries in the relationship. 7th house planets couldn’t be more different than Venus&Mars, I mean it’s black and white, night and day, good and bad…okay not really the last one. So what I find attractive and what I need in a relationship are contradictory….getting an Aries-type to fit into a Saturn&Pluto relationship just doesn’t work. Which makes me sad. I need Saturn commitment and devotion and promises of forever and sticking it through to the end….but Aries doesn't want that!!! Frustrating!! Also I need that Pluto feeling of fated-ness, that “give all your love with absolutely no boundaries”, just love until you physically can no longer function…
Is it unrealistic? Sure, probably....putting that
to good use 
don't really care, I cannot settle, won’t commit unless it drastically transforms me. Saturn 7th may “limit” me for being unrealistic, and that's fine. I’d rather die alone than remain in a bland limited marriage anyway. Hey! that’s something Mars&Pluto share, the desire for drama in relationships 
One thing about Pluto 7th is, if we’re interested you’ll know it. Can’t miss it. If we ignore or find you boring, move along, it’s never gonna happen. No way would I risk losing someone I truly care for.
I believe I’ve found someone who gives me almost everything, but he comes with some massive flaws. Stilllll…he has Pluto 7th natally, maybe we can transform each other
) but I want to participate! 7th house planets are Saturn&Pluto, 5th house Cancer, Venus&Mars Aries and Juno in Aquarius. A mess
I DEFINITELY find Aries types(not necessarily Aries Suns) incredibly attractive. Give me someone aggressive, direct, fiery and outspoken and I will be obsessing for a while. Meek and mild and quiet does nothing for me sadly…unless he’s kind and sweet, and needs protecting, in which case I become the Aries in the relationship. 7th house planets couldn’t be more different than Venus&Mars, I mean it’s black and white, night and day, good and bad…okay not really the last one. So what I find attractive and what I need in a relationship are contradictory….getting an Aries-type to fit into a Saturn&Pluto relationship just doesn’t work. Which makes me sad. I need Saturn commitment and devotion and promises of forever and sticking it through to the end….but Aries doesn't want that!!! Frustrating!! Also I need that Pluto feeling of fated-ness, that “give all your love with absolutely no boundaries”, just love until you physically can no longer function…Is it unrealistic? Sure, probably....putting that
to good use don't really care, I cannot settle, won’t commit unless it drastically transforms me. Saturn 7th may “limit” me for being unrealistic, and that's fine. I’d rather die alone than remain in a bland limited marriage anyway. Hey! that’s something Mars&Pluto share, the desire for drama in relationships One thing about Pluto 7th is, if we’re interested you’ll know it. Can’t miss it. If we ignore or find you boring, move along, it’s never gonna happen. No way would I risk losing someone I truly care for.
I believe I’ve found someone who gives me almost everything, but he comes with some massive flaws. Stilllll…he has Pluto 7th natally, maybe we can transform each other
Vagabondgirl
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I have 7th house in Sagittarius with uranus in it. I have had 2 partnert previously where they both had ASC/Sun/Mercury in Saggitarius, and was married to one of them.
Now there is this longdistance relationship with a foreigner and we met online. I guess this describes the saggitarian 7th house (Foreigners, abroad) and uranus for internet or sudden connections. But this guy is predominantly gemini, as my ASC/1st house. We have alot of contact between our mercuries and our jupiters in synastry meaning travelling and communication. Alot of telephone and internet contact ofcourse.
My 5th house is in leo, and he doesnt have any planets there. But I have my Virgo stellium with Mars/Venus/Moon in his 5th house.
Now there is this longdistance relationship with a foreigner and we met online. I guess this describes the saggitarian 7th house (Foreigners, abroad) and uranus for internet or sudden connections. But this guy is predominantly gemini, as my ASC/1st house. We have alot of contact between our mercuries and our jupiters in synastry meaning travelling and communication. Alot of telephone and internet contact ofcourse.
My 5th house is in leo, and he doesnt have any planets there. But I have my Virgo stellium with Mars/Venus/Moon in his 5th house.
Claire19
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the jury is out on Juno. Some myths say that she shows the courtesan, the uncommitted affair,and often married to someone else.
But otherwise what is stated is correct. The 7th house also describes our other committed relationships such as business partners and even our long term best friends. I find that the fourth house often shows the partner if they have a family together.
But otherwise what is stated is correct. The 7th house also describes our other committed relationships such as business partners and even our long term best friends. I find that the fourth house often shows the partner if they have a family together.
Claire19
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You have your rising sign in Gemini and often we attract those with the Sun or other planets in that sign of the ascendant.
I have my Juno in Libra conjunct Jupiter and near the 9th house cusp. My experience has been that I had many opportunities to have affairs when I was travelling and with foreign men. As nothing came of it I cant say they were potential marriage partners at all. Not likely.
I have Virgo on the 7th cusp with Mercury ruling, for now, conjunct Saturn in Leo in the 5th I didnt want children and have not married through choice.
Claire19
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Remember that you rule the chart and not the other way around. It just shows possibilities and you have free will. The chart does not rule us.
Alpha Librae
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"Venus and Mars show what we consider to be our ideal man or woman."
I tend to agree from what I've seen. My Mars is in Scorpio and I find strong-willed, powerful men very attractive. My husband has Sagittarius Venus and he likes friendly, easygoing and adventurous women.
I tend to agree from what I've seen. My Mars is in Scorpio and I find strong-willed, powerful men very attractive. My husband has Sagittarius Venus and he likes friendly, easygoing and adventurous women.
I find it very true from the personal experience and the charts I've seen. I would also add that the descendant shows how we treat a partner and the overall attitude towards what we want in a relationship.
My husband's Sun is conjunct my Asc and his moon is also conjunct my Desc. My Moon is conjunct his Asc and my Sun is conjunct his Jupiter-Saturn conjuction, Saturn being the ruler of his 7th house and placed in his 4th house.
JUPITERASC
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Comprehensive traditional tips on delineating marriage at http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49297
zoumizzouzou
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Hmm, I read some where if you take your chart and flip it (example of houses:
7 would go first
8 second
9 third and so on...
10
11
12.. ect.) is how you see your marriage partner... So mine would go like this:
Aries: "Aries Ascendant often gives a rather swift walk, with the head leaning forward slightly. This walk is surprisingly distinctive. Headaches, and sinus and eye problems are the usual physical complaints of this position. Rashes and acne on the face and shoulders sometimes occur. Broad shoulders and slim hips are common. Often, Aries rising people are quick to smile, and they possess a youthful charm throughout life." (This is true of my current bf, we are not married though.)
Taurus: Financially secure and likes to splurge on luxury items (his car
)
Gemini: "Reads and thinks a lot, but is not very focused. Has a lot of projects going at once." (Yes he does
)
This method worked for me
7 would go first
8 second
9 third and so on...
10
11
12.. ect.) is how you see your marriage partner... So mine would go like this:
Aries: "Aries Ascendant often gives a rather swift walk, with the head leaning forward slightly. This walk is surprisingly distinctive. Headaches, and sinus and eye problems are the usual physical complaints of this position. Rashes and acne on the face and shoulders sometimes occur. Broad shoulders and slim hips are common. Often, Aries rising people are quick to smile, and they possess a youthful charm throughout life." (This is true of my current bf, we are not married though.)
Taurus: Financially secure and likes to splurge on luxury items (his car
)Gemini: "Reads and thinks a lot, but is not very focused. Has a lot of projects going at once." (Yes he does
)This method worked for me