labelledujour
Well-known member
Background story:
After dealing with my depression, I had to deal with my mum's abusive behavior which had me finally moving out with my fiance. This happened around 2 months ago. My relationship with my mother has always been very difficult, since no one of us was ever willing to back down. My quadruple Virgo father (Sun/Moon/Mercury/Asc) has always backed off during their arguments, while my Leo Sun/Sag Moon/Pisces ASC sis used all her Saturn in Libra energy (she's currently facing her Saturn return) to deal with her, since my mother was even more abusive to her than to me. My sis has moved out, too. Now my mother is slowly turning to my father, who's currently getting his pension after he faced his 2nd Saturn return last year, since my sis and I are not around her. I want to forgive her since it's psychologically the only way out for me, but it's hard.
Now I'm asking for help via the charts because hopefully they will help me pinpoint what's the motive of my mother behind all this and finally find even a common ground between me and her so that I can finally let go of the pain she caused all these years. The fact we both have a Moon-Pluto conjunction and her Pluto conjunct my SN in Leo isn't any help at all, really. With her Mars in Aries squaring both my Sun and ASC I do think she tries to impose her authority on me. The scary thing is that we share many common Moon aspects...uck!
If you want the charts for my dad and sis, or anymore additional charts or something, let me know. Thank you very, very much for even taking the time to look. 1st chart is mine, 2nd my mother's, the 3rd one our synastry, 4th our composite.
After dealing with my depression, I had to deal with my mum's abusive behavior which had me finally moving out with my fiance. This happened around 2 months ago. My relationship with my mother has always been very difficult, since no one of us was ever willing to back down. My quadruple Virgo father (Sun/Moon/Mercury/Asc) has always backed off during their arguments, while my Leo Sun/Sag Moon/Pisces ASC sis used all her Saturn in Libra energy (she's currently facing her Saturn return) to deal with her, since my mother was even more abusive to her than to me. My sis has moved out, too. Now my mother is slowly turning to my father, who's currently getting his pension after he faced his 2nd Saturn return last year, since my sis and I are not around her. I want to forgive her since it's psychologically the only way out for me, but it's hard.
Now I'm asking for help via the charts because hopefully they will help me pinpoint what's the motive of my mother behind all this and finally find even a common ground between me and her so that I can finally let go of the pain she caused all these years. The fact we both have a Moon-Pluto conjunction and her Pluto conjunct my SN in Leo isn't any help at all, really. With her Mars in Aries squaring both my Sun and ASC I do think she tries to impose her authority on me. The scary thing is that we share many common Moon aspects...uck!
If you want the charts for my dad and sis, or anymore additional charts or something, let me know. Thank you very, very much for even taking the time to look. 1st chart is mine, 2nd my mother's, the 3rd one our synastry, 4th our composite.