Can I have an abortion without my family's knowledge?
- Thread starter Scherzy
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yes, that's true. If I am not wrong Scherzy must be in the 4th week now. A doc could detect a pregnancy via ultrasound at the 3rd week. So it could be indeed just a bit too early
Chrysalis
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I hope that I am not pregnant
If your not pregnant, being so stressed out will delay your period coming probably too.
sore breast ,nausea,and sometimes pains
Chrysalis
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Well, nausea is a big sign of being pregnant. Sore breasts and pains not so much as you can get these even if you're late.
will it be collapsed?
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yes ,sir
I asked spontaneously
waybread
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What worries me (and what I meant by "don't go there") is that desperate women have killed or permanently injured themselves by trying to induce a miscarriage. If the method does not succeed in inducing a miscarriage, then you will have lost valuable time in seeking a medically supervised safe abortion. Please follow the most sensible course of action.
Generally a void-of-the-course moon means that the situation is unlikely to change. I might add that your 12th house moon is ruled by Mars, which possesses no essential dignity. All-in-all, not a promising situation if you hope your pregnancy will just go away on its own.
Generally a void-of-the-course moon means that the situation is unlikely to change. I might add that your 12th house moon is ruled by Mars, which possesses no essential dignity. All-in-all, not a promising situation if you hope your pregnancy will just go away on its own.
aquarius7000
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Scherzy,
Simple questions and please give simple accurate answers.
1) What kind of a doctor (gynaecologist, obstetrician, GP) did you go to?
2) What did the doctor say exactly to you?
3) From the time you had intercourse to when you went to this doctor, how many weeks/days had passed in between (please count exactly)?
Simple questions and please give simple accurate answers.
1) What kind of a doctor (gynaecologist, obstetrician, GP) did you go to?
2) What did the doctor say exactly to you?
3) From the time you had intercourse to when you went to this doctor, how many weeks/days had passed in between (please count exactly)?
obstetrician
this value does not match the date you gave, she said.
this value is too low for 6 weeks, this pregnancy will not result, he said.
He couldn't see anything on ultrasound, but I wasn't cramped with urine.
* menstrual 27 february
sex 15 march
My first visit to the doctor was March 31 -test negative
my second go 9 march beta hcg is 171, positive
aquarius7000
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I am not putting your info in quotes, so that you can remove it when you want to. I would also suggest that given the nature of this thread and how strict your family/culture is, you might want to ask one of the mods to delete this thread in its entirety after you stop posting here.
Ok, so when you went the 2nd time to the doctor on April 9, it was the 26th day you went to the doc on. You therefore fall in time frame and beta hcg level
"4 Weeks: 5 to 426 mIU/ml" (your hcg is 171 mIU)
Source: https://www.verywellfamily.com/the-pregnancy-hormone-hcg-1960127
Also, the blood test for beta hcg is done after the initial urine test comes out positive. Do you remember if the first urine test came out positive?
If the doc said your value is too low for 6 weeks (actually it is 4 weeks), then even if you got preg initially, the pregnancy is not progressing as it should and the embryo not dev. as it should, so perhaps that is what it means when he says preg. will not result. However, you might be translating from Turkish to English and something seems to be getting lost in terms of info and what he exactly said.
Now, since your levels are higher than 25 mIU after 4 weeks (because for me 4 weeks is the time between intercourse and apr. 9th), it seems positive for preg. but beta hcg is too low than it should be, so not developing properly.
https://americanpregnancy.org/getting-pregnant/hcg-levels/
Ok, so when you went the 2nd time to the doctor on April 9, it was the 26th day you went to the doc on. You therefore fall in time frame and beta hcg level
"4 Weeks: 5 to 426 mIU/ml" (your hcg is 171 mIU)
Source: https://www.verywellfamily.com/the-pregnancy-hormone-hcg-1960127
Also, the blood test for beta hcg is done after the initial urine test comes out positive. Do you remember if the first urine test came out positive?
If the doc said your value is too low for 6 weeks (actually it is 4 weeks), then even if you got preg initially, the pregnancy is not progressing as it should and the embryo not dev. as it should, so perhaps that is what it means when he says preg. will not result. However, you might be translating from Turkish to English and something seems to be getting lost in terms of info and what he exactly said.
Now, since your levels are higher than 25 mIU after 4 weeks (because for me 4 weeks is the time between intercourse and apr. 9th), it seems positive for preg. but beta hcg is too low than it should be, so not developing properly.
https://americanpregnancy.org/getting-pregnant/hcg-levels/