Ive been reading/learning about astrology for the last 2 years...in attempt to answer questions I have about life, love, relationships, myself & the people in my life. For a long time I thought I understood this relationship very well. Recently Ive been wondering if Ive had faith in what I believed or if I've been in some sort of denial. There seem to be plenty of desirable aspects...im just having a hard time bringing them all together and maybe am missing something important. Any help will be greatly appreciated.
The female info:
June 25 1972 in Los Angeles Ca.
(118 West 15, 34 North 03) at 10:04 AM.
The male's info:
Dec 16 1984 in
Seattle Wa. (122 West 13, 47 North 29)at 6:45 PM.
The key points I look at are how the Sun/Moon aspects are for spirit and emotional connection, Venus/Mars for sexual communication/connection and your two Mercuries to see mental communication.
Your Moon and his Sun are conjunct in Sagittarius - an excellent aspect for marriage. You Moon also conjuncts his Mercury and Uranus so there seems to be some excitement in play. Your Sun and his Moon are in a square relationship which creates some tension but they do see/are aware of each other which is positive.
Your Venus and his Mars are in Trine to each other which is positive. You Mars and his Venus are inconjunct so his receptive side doesn't really connect with your assertive side from a sexual perspective - he seems to take the lead.
The Mercuries are also inconjunct which means you don't connect mentally very well - challenges in general communication with each other - it's hard to talk things through.
Some other things - Your Mars on his ascendant can stimulate him to get things going (I have a similar aspect with my wife). Your Uranus is also conjunct that same ruler of the his Ascendant, the Moon. You shake up his emotional world.
So I would say that you could have a fulfilling relationship with the understanding that you may have to send smoke signals from time to time to each other to be understood.