ardentika
Well-known member
"Am I doomed?"; "Will I die single?" "Is there any love relationship in my chart?"
You get the idea. I've noticed this agenda happening more and more. It's normal, we all want love, and it's getting rarer and rarer, almost those who have love are God's chosen ones. And people want to know why.. so they turn to astrology, and mystic readers, runes and what not. Somehow with astrology they always try to blame the stars, and 90% of the people here fail to IDENTIFY themselves with their planets. Because a planet is that. It's not an outside force, or God that's making you experience this, it's all you , with all the flaws and all the good ****.
But why do we always blame ourselves or our chart?
We live in an individualistic society, no one wants to be vulnerable or be in a relationship, because everyone waits for something better. So.. it's our fault, everyone, as a collective consciousness. Stop looking at the planets for answers, and start finding them within.
Everyone is here to experience love in their own way, that's why we have all of this planetary combinations. And there is no right or wrong way. Someone people have a lot of lessons to learn when it comes to that, and they are rarely pleasant, but they are lessons and they promote growth. Growth promotes happiness and happy relationships.
But now there is this agenda of fearful generation that doesn't want to make any mistakes and looks for answers in a "higher power" and that again gets corrupted.
Hell, there are so many ******** written on the internet about this topic, that even I got scared when I first got into astrology. This is toxic and dangerous. I don't blame the people who have fallen in this trap given the fact how many gloomy articles we have for Saturn in 7th, or Pluto in 7th or Mars... and so on.
I can't tell you how many people I know with Saturn in 7th who DO have relationships, yeah they aren't perfect, they might be on and off, but they are there. Same with people who have other hard aspects to their 7th or "malefic" planets.
Each planet has a level of manifestation, and it's up to us on which level we let it play out. Awareness changes everything. I see very little people speak of spirituality on this forum, which is such a huge mistake, because people take astrology for written science. Astrology IS part of spirituality, it is an occult science, and can be looked at only if one has that awareness, otherwise it becomes toxic.
You can't take the lesson of a planet unless you are AWARE of it. Astrology can be such a helping tool to accelerate that process. Instead of living a whole human life with miserable love life, simply because you just don't know what's wrong and you feel doomed, instead you have all this info to learn and work on that area that's blocking you. Astrology is like a better version of psychology, nothing more.
Here is a small example from my chart. I have Venus square Moon, that often times made me attract guys that would end up making me feel unlovable. I also have Mars in 7th, that's opposite Saturn in 1st. Yukes. With time and help of astrology I realized that this is true. That deep down somewhere, there is this pattern and feeling of unworthiness, that's why I play it out in my relationships, so that it can CATCH my attention and I can solve it. Took me some time but it worked. Now I know for which feelings I have to watch out and have to heal. This also calls for acceptance. Accepting who you are, what you want, accepting your chart and your planets as if they are just a picture of your inner self. Not some malefic gods who punish you and compell your life.
People who know very little astrology have no problem with relationships, and somehow those who do always have a problem and always look for explanations and excuses in their chart. This has to stop, it's a vicious circle.
No one blocks love but we ourselves. Our fears, our expectations, and our ego. And astrology can tell you where your fears lie, your expectations and your ego, so that you can transform it.
Peace.
You get the idea. I've noticed this agenda happening more and more. It's normal, we all want love, and it's getting rarer and rarer, almost those who have love are God's chosen ones. And people want to know why.. so they turn to astrology, and mystic readers, runes and what not. Somehow with astrology they always try to blame the stars, and 90% of the people here fail to IDENTIFY themselves with their planets. Because a planet is that. It's not an outside force, or God that's making you experience this, it's all you , with all the flaws and all the good ****.
But why do we always blame ourselves or our chart?
We live in an individualistic society, no one wants to be vulnerable or be in a relationship, because everyone waits for something better. So.. it's our fault, everyone, as a collective consciousness. Stop looking at the planets for answers, and start finding them within.
Everyone is here to experience love in their own way, that's why we have all of this planetary combinations. And there is no right or wrong way. Someone people have a lot of lessons to learn when it comes to that, and they are rarely pleasant, but they are lessons and they promote growth. Growth promotes happiness and happy relationships.
But now there is this agenda of fearful generation that doesn't want to make any mistakes and looks for answers in a "higher power" and that again gets corrupted.
Hell, there are so many ******** written on the internet about this topic, that even I got scared when I first got into astrology. This is toxic and dangerous. I don't blame the people who have fallen in this trap given the fact how many gloomy articles we have for Saturn in 7th, or Pluto in 7th or Mars... and so on.
I can't tell you how many people I know with Saturn in 7th who DO have relationships, yeah they aren't perfect, they might be on and off, but they are there. Same with people who have other hard aspects to their 7th or "malefic" planets.
Each planet has a level of manifestation, and it's up to us on which level we let it play out. Awareness changes everything. I see very little people speak of spirituality on this forum, which is such a huge mistake, because people take astrology for written science. Astrology IS part of spirituality, it is an occult science, and can be looked at only if one has that awareness, otherwise it becomes toxic.
You can't take the lesson of a planet unless you are AWARE of it. Astrology can be such a helping tool to accelerate that process. Instead of living a whole human life with miserable love life, simply because you just don't know what's wrong and you feel doomed, instead you have all this info to learn and work on that area that's blocking you. Astrology is like a better version of psychology, nothing more.
Here is a small example from my chart. I have Venus square Moon, that often times made me attract guys that would end up making me feel unlovable. I also have Mars in 7th, that's opposite Saturn in 1st. Yukes. With time and help of astrology I realized that this is true. That deep down somewhere, there is this pattern and feeling of unworthiness, that's why I play it out in my relationships, so that it can CATCH my attention and I can solve it. Took me some time but it worked. Now I know for which feelings I have to watch out and have to heal. This also calls for acceptance. Accepting who you are, what you want, accepting your chart and your planets as if they are just a picture of your inner self. Not some malefic gods who punish you and compell your life.
People who know very little astrology have no problem with relationships, and somehow those who do always have a problem and always look for explanations and excuses in their chart. This has to stop, it's a vicious circle.
No one blocks love but we ourselves. Our fears, our expectations, and our ego. And astrology can tell you where your fears lie, your expectations and your ego, so that you can transform it.
Peace.