Everywhere I read about mars in picses women, they are supposed to be attracted to men with a pisces/12th house influence. When I read about capricorn in venus women they're supposed to flirt with a capricorn type of vibe. When reflect on myself I realize that I flirt like a pisces and am attracted to capricorn men. Is there an explanation for this?
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R im a woman and i use my mars sign to flirt and am attracted to people that relate to my venus sign. How could this be?
You need to look at your eros and psyche, that's really who you're attracted to. Mars is how you are in bed, but Pluto, the 5th and the 8th houses are more telling.
Example:
I have Mars in Libra, I am not attracted to Libra men - I do like intelligent men with more tact than I (those are Libra men attributes) and I love beautiful women (those are Libra lady attributes - typically). But, I don't date women, only sleep with them from time to time. I date men.
My Venus is in Sagittarius, I do like men that like me enjoy travel, cultures, higher education, talking about philosophy, law, and politics. But, have never dated or fallen in love with any man who's had Sagittarius as his Sun, Moon or Asc.
But - very big but - Eros & Psyche - i.e. who and what you want most sexually and romantically (Eros) and who you are really (Psyche) are on point.
My Eros is in Scorpio, I detest frauds. I enjoy dominate persons who are mysterious, more intelligent than I am, and who enjoy secrets, sexual taboos, men with beards, body odor, and a strong inclination to all sort of sexual depravity - including and not limited to anyone in the nude. Even those not deemed attractive. I enjoy home **** and deep, penetrating eyes, and I have a fondness for people who have pain in their heart. I have only been in love with a few men, all of them have had Scorpio somewhere important in their chart, including their psyche. There is 1 exception but that persons Eros and Psyche conjunct my Psyche, so he's an anomally - i.e. a 'true' soulmate that I'll meet in every future lifetime and have met in all my past.
My Psyche is in Gemini, that's opposite 4 of my planets in my natal, meaning it describes me as being the opposite of how I appear. I get off on falling in love with intelligent types, that are witty, full of banter, who are kinky, and men that enjoy cross dressing, mama role play, and redheads, men that like me are knowledgable about a LOT of subjects and also fond of words and sexual innuendo. I.E. poets, cyber sex, dirty talk, et cetra. Probably most important with this placement - I get off on men that can quickly get me off, with their words or pretty hands (no joke, it's mercury).
House affects:
My 5th house is in Cancer, I'm a woman that likes men - Cancer women (think Pamela A) are great at oral matters in bed - and actually enjoy giving, they're also kinky - even up for swinging - this fits me - libra is not into any of that other than oral, and usually only if being paid (they're the sign of the sugar baby - males and females- really note it if the persons psyche or eros is in that sign - FYI!)
My 8th house (depending on the system) is in Scorpio or Sage, I like home ****, I like S & M, I like nasty - those are Scorpio and Sage attributes- dirty sluts.
Check out eros and psyche tables, then explore or watch the video on youtube about eros and psyche soulmates (mystic gwen) and her sex and the signs video (pay attention to what mystic gwen says about your eros, psyche, mars, sun, venus, and moon).