Modern astrologers, who count the outer planets Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto, would note that you have 4 planets in Aquarius, so whatever you learn about your Aquarian sun sign is extra-reinforced, notably with Uranus as the modern ruler of Aquarius in that sign also.
With sun conjunct Venus, you are probably very attractive, if in an unconventional way-- even if you don't feel that way about yourself.
!2th house people are often every private-- even the outgoing ones need serious "me time" when you can be alone to recharge your batteries. You may prefer working behind the scenes, rather than drawing attention to yourself.
With your moon (emotional nature) quintile Neptune and moon sextile Mercury (thinking, communicating,) you probably have a vivid imagination and can use it to express your creativity in the world.
I use both modern and traditional rulers for natal charts, and think sworm made a good call about your difficult family life. However, with Jupiter ruling your 10th house of career, and being exalted in Cancer, I think you have the ability to turn your difficult upbringing into your career. You should be able to reach out to help other people who also have had difficult childhoods. A career in counseling or psychology might suit you. (Uranus is the modern ruler of psychology.) With your north node of the moon in your 4th house, your personal growth would seem to come, first, from learning to come to terms with those difficulties, and then subsequently to pass your insights on to other people.