Deirdre
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its an incredible answer.
i too believe its our soul that pulls us closer to that people.not randomly of course...its sth our soul needs to learn with that person...and bam..we cannot seem to get awat from.
i felt identified with all uve said. Thankx
i too believe its our soul that pulls us closer to that people.not randomly of course...its sth our soul needs to learn with that person...and bam..we cannot seem to get awat from.
i felt identified with all uve said. Thankx
Redwo!f....I completely identify with your plutonian energy. I, too, seem to be prone toward attractions that plunge into the depths of one's soul....its very p!uto and scorpio. And love feels superficial to me without that kind of depth. It makes for a complicated dance when you throw in all of my air and fire (Sag) into the mix.
But all this discussion about what is "real" love (Pluto? Venus? Neptune? Etc.) is irre!evant. Each individual will define "real" love differently, according to his/her own spiritual, psychological, and emotional needs, which can be found in one's own unique chart. For example, on a totally generic level, the way a Taurus energy may perceive or feel "love" will be different from an Aquarius or Scorpio energy. So the whole argument of what is "real" love will vary from person to person. For example, some people are just not into the Pluto energy. it's too much for them. It's crazy. It's definitely not something for the lighthearted.
I had a recent encounter with someone who has triggered a similar obsessive response within me. It triggered a deep period of introspection and research for the past couple of months. (I posted a thread about it, but focused on a couple of specific aspects). Overall what I realized iis that none of our relationships are random. And this compelling need you have to connect with this girl (just like I have/had with this other guy) doesn't have to do with that girl so much as it is a manifestation of your soul that is trying to evolve and take you to the next level. She may be a soul mate, who knows, but the purpose of this fixation on your end (or any soul mate) is something within your soul that is struggling to become whole on its own.
Aside from all that soul ****, though, I totally get it. It is so amazingly fun when your energies fit so perfectly with another person. When the world around you melts away and you just want to kiss the other person. Falling in love is the best drug ever. But as a fellow plutonian, I do advise you to be careful. Get some distance from the issue. Get perspective. Redirect your energies and focus into more productve channels. Because if this relationship is meant to happen, I believe it will on its own. One of the negative manifestations of P!uto energy iis the need to control, manipulate, and conquer. The lesson for us is to recognize when it's time to let go and just trust the universe..... Have faith.....it's the evolution from Scorpio to Sagittarius energy.
Hope I helped.