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Unread 04-16-2018, 06:18 PM
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Should I Attempt to Reconnect with a Former Friend?

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I have an old friend that I met a couple years ago. We had a few conflicts near August/July of last year, ending our friendship around that time. She cared deeply for me, but I was struggling with issues of my past during that time and it placed stress on her. I was going through too many things to take notice of that strain I did on her.

This friend means a lot to me, so, a few months ago I messaged her, thanking her for what she means to me. I never saw a response and I felt like I was intruding so I left it as that. Some time past and she unblocked me on my Facebook account. I eventually messaged her and she told me she wanted to respond but couldn't. She hasn't said anything since. We had a strong past that was very emotional that connected us. So, I told her she needed not respond if she did not want to.

I'd like to reconnect with her but I don't know if it's the best time. If I approach her would she respond positively?

Sadly I don't know her natal chart, but I do recall she is a Virgo with a lot of Leo bits. Leo moon, mercury, and venus I believe? I can't recall correctly out side of her sun and moon.

I really want to talk to her again.
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I love her to bits. I don't want to mess up a chance to really reconnect. There are so many things I wanted to share with her. Every time I see her there is such a great comfort. Loved every moment we had together...

I BADLY want to give her a massive bear hug. I miss her so much. I'd, honestly, go drive 20 hours just to see her NP. Such a wonderful woman.

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It does not look favorable at all to reconnect with her now.
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It does not look favorable at all to reconnect with her now.
Well, my impulsiveness sent a message. I'll try again later.

I was hoping the sun-Merc would have been a positive for communication.

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Well, my impulsiveness sent a message. I'll try again later.

I was hoping the sun-Merc would have been a positive for communication.
I'm glad you did, because I was thinking that of course suddenly showing up might be too much of a surprise and jarring, but a little ping to test the waters would be just right.
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I'm glad you did, because I was thinking that of course suddenly showing up might be too much of a surprise and jarring, but a little ping to test the waters would be just right.
A little inside joke of ours, compliment on her latest music, and asked how she was doing.

She did a cover of one of my favourite bands. It was, by far, the ONLY cover I've ever heard that sounded so amazing. It, literally, left me in tears.
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Well, my impulsiveness sent a message. I'll try again later.

I was hoping the sun-Merc would have been a positive for communication.
Mercury in Aries squares a strong rejecting Saturn in Capricorn before it reaches the Sun.
Well, I wish you well and please keep us posted.
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Mercury in Aries squares a strong rejecting Saturn in Capricorn before it reaches the Sun.
Well, I wish you well and please keep us posted.
Thanks for the explanation re: indicators in the chart!
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Still no word. No indication she read my message either.

Just throwing an update out there.
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Re: Should I Attempt to Reconnect with a Former Friend?

Im going to break this down...

So the past sun square aspect was this argument you speak of, the degrees are correspondent to July/August too, being around 9-10 degrees, which takes us 9-10 months back to july/august, when this incident happened your friend saturn was receiving you by fall.

This moon/sun/uranus has sparked you off to try again, but it was just bad timing, as for one your still in the fall of saturn, and two there was a venus L3 and jupiter her L11 opposition at the same time.

Now if you give it a little while and try again, you should be more successful, you need sun to get to out of aries and into taurus at 9 degrees to be in a nice trine with saturn, at this point moon will also be in an exact opposition with sun too.....this would be a trigger.

So in around 3 months from when you first did this chart, then try and re-contact, and hopefully you'll get a better result.
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Im going to break this down...

So the past sun square aspect was this argument you speak of, the degrees are correspondent to July/August too, being around 9-10 degrees, which takes us 9-10 months back to july/august, when this incident happened your friend saturn was receiving you by fall.

This moon/sun/uranus has sparked you off to try again, but it was just bad timing, as for one your still in the fall of saturn, and two there was a venus L3 and jupiter her L11 opposition at the same time.

Now if you give it a little while and try again, you should be more successful, you need sun to get to out of aries and into taurus at 9 degrees to be in a nice trine with saturn, at this point moon will also be in an exact opposition with sun too.....this would be a trigger.

So in around 3 months from when you first did this chart, then try and re-contact, and hopefully you'll get a better result.
Thanks Crys! I appreciate it! I will definitely try again in a few months. I'll probably send her a photo in uniform, thanking her.
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