The19thLaw
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What in your natal chart says which sign you will be the most compatible with for love, lust, and relationships?
You don't. Contrary to popular belief, compatibility isn't determined astrologically. Relationship dynamics can be, but who's compatible with you depends on what kind of relationship dynamics you want. And it's not as simple as "this sign yes, that sign, no." It takes long, complex looks at both charts to figure out the likely dynamics.
If you're only looking at your own chart, your seventh house gives a very general sense of the kinds of personality traits a good partner for you would have. That doesn't tell us what their astrological chart would look like, although it's very common for people to be especially attracted to people whose charts in some way reflect their seventh sign. Maybe your seventh is their rising sign, or sun sign, or moon sign, or they have planets in it. Maybe they have your seventh house ruler on their ascendant. Something like that.
I see and for that you really need birth times if anything.
So it seems like the opposite of your ascendant is what would win you over.
Funnily enough, I have a 7th house Saturn too but it is in Aquarius. Looking back at it, I do seem to attract interest from Aquarius women and Pisces women. The pisces part explains a lot since I have a 12th house stellium.
What caught me off guard is that I tend to be interested in Sagittarius women for some reason but had no luck there socializing or attracting them. Then I looked at my chart and it is my 5th house ruler and my 5th house is empty, I also have no Sag in my chart.
It seems though that even having a Leo stellium (fellow fire sign right?) is not enough to make up for the lack of connection to Sagittarius.
They do say the stars don't compel so there is that but it does get me. I am not that interested romantically in Aquarius women and tend to love a girl of more of a fellow fire sign. I seem to occasionally get a Leo or Aries woman who is into me.
Funny thing is I have friends, all guys, who are Sags but I don't seem to draw in the women as much. It's an odd case.
Then again, I notice it is not often I see Leo men and Sag women together, it kind of breaks the stereotype of compatible elements.
Great so there is hope for me to spend a night one night with a fine Sagittarius woman.
Why do you need to?
You can look at (or talk to ) a woman and get a pretty good idea if you’re attracted to them or not...
and if you go on a few dates you can tell if you get along with them or not
Unless you live in an arranged marriage society where these things don’t apply.
I think astrology can be dangerous in that regard, because it can give you preconceived notions and judgments before meeting someone.
I understand that people can discern things from a chart, but this approach isn’t very healthy or productive when trying to enter relationships because these things require openness and communication rather than a set of assumptions.
(In a liberal western viewpoint aka American)
4th House 7th House 10th House rulers of your chart and synastry aspects to them. Even Mars and Saturn can find the love match they want that way.
Each sign has a planetary ruler. The ruler of the sign a house's cusp is in rules that house.So how does this house ruler thing work?
Moon rules Cancer. Venus rules Taurus. That would make Moon the 12th house ruler and Venus the 10th house ruler.Say my Venus is in the 12th house and Mars in 10th house
Mars = Gemini
Venus = Leo
12th house seems to be in Cancer, 10th in Taurus (MC)