Just getting a chance to properly reply to these now.
Wow - thanks to everyone who gave a response. Much appreciated
illusia89: Thank you so much for your first post on my first thread! Have just joined also myself, so wish you well. There were a few things you mentioned that were spot on. And you didn't go overboard at all, loved all of what you wrote and found it really helpful.
The one serious relationship I have had so far, was with a Pisces. He wasn't an artist but did work with shamanic healing and was kinda of quirky but dominant. However, I myself am an artist.
I do find that Pisces type people are the ones I seem to most easily connect with in life...in terms of love, friends etc.
Yes, in terms of care taking and putting down boundaries, that is something that has really stung me and damaged me in the past...and something I really need to work on. I can attract very damaged/ing people in all areas of my life. I myself was one.
And nice to know you don't see any heavy aspects blocking marriage!
In terms of the major transits, it's quite interesting about Neptune. Starsarearound mentioned this also and so have begun doing some reading about it. Very grateful to learn about this and will continue to read up on it.
Will have a think about your questions. I can certainly be prone to over analyzing...relationships and other aspects of life. And I think there is definitely an element of not letting things get too serious, or even start at all out of over thinking or rationalising and basically just,as you said, fear of it not working out. There is a block there at times for sure.
StarsarearoundThank you so much for your post. It has been extremely helpful! Have started reading up on Neptune transit 7th house and...ugh...lol...sounds interesting
But yes, this is why I love astrology, the more I am learn about it. I can now work with this energy as best I can and just hopefully be aware of it as I navigate things. But wow yes, it will be a loooong transit.
And its funny, cause if it is just leaving my 6th house....that would explain some other stuff going on at mo,
A lot of the what I am reading on it transiting the 7th seems to be quite...negative! Is it possible that this could be quite spiritual also? Attract 'soul' friends and lovers?
Ashriia Wow yes, thank you! This is all really good to know. And you are spot in in terms of the types of partners/sex. There has always been some sort of sadomasochistic element. And that element can be attractive both consciously and unconsciously
So yes, there are still some negative patterns there. Have done work on them in the past but interestingly enough have started therapy again around some of these issues. So wow yea, thank you, really spot on.
And with the Neptune transit like Starsarearound mentioned, and now this Pluto hitting the 5th cusp, will definitely be discerning about the next relationship before committing.
Good to know though that you don't see any issues with serious relationships/marriages forming. Just need to be careful about who I form them with now lol
Curiousabout77 Interesting yes, thank you for your post. Do you mean that I find it difficult to have and maintain a relationship due to my need for independence? This was definitely part of the issues with my one LT relationship after me moved in together. 4 months later I moved out...
And I suppose, I would be quite independent in ways, maybe even more so than I think in terms of actually being in another long term relationship and what that might bring up for me around independence. In other ways though, I would have to be careful in terms of being too co-dependent also, so its a weird mix really.
Thank you all again,
Free2fly