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Will this relationship develop into something more?

So I hooked up with this guy, twice already, and probably will many more times in the future. I'm not really sure where this is going, but I curious to know what the synastry and composite say about it.

I feel like I did a pretty good analysis of the charts already, so I'm kind of looking for your own experiences or warnings regarding the aspects seen.

Like the first thing that really stands out is how my Uranus exactly trines his Sun (my chart is inside and his is outside, and yes both of our names are chris). But yeah, Sun Uranus trine is like an electrifying relationship. It's so interesting because I only see him on fridays, and then throughout the week, we like we disappear from each others lives like we don't even know each other. Like it's on and off. And this relationship is of course unconventional it started as a hookup, it's open-minded and in many ways it feels like were more of friends rather than romantics, and its pretty chill and there isn't a lot of smothering or infringing on each other's lives. So I just think that's really cool how the tightest aspect in the synastry chart pretty much summarizes the relationship.

And then there's my mars and venus squaring his sun and mercury. I'm so freaking worried that this is what will end it. Like of course there's the initial attraction and getting it on, but I think after a while we might get irritated with each other and end it, which I feel is depressing and want to prevent that from happening. And me being the mars venus person, I feel like I'm the initiator and he's kind of just drinking in the relationship, especially cuz he's a narcissistic libra who loves being beautiful, he gets a nice ego boost whenever I compliment him and do things for him and ****... but I'm worried I'll become resentful of this..

But thank god for my mars in cancer trine his mars in scorpio. Like what a hot aspect right??

as far as the composite goes, there's a stellium in virgo. I think this means that the relationship serves a very practical purpose and is a great source of mental and communicable stimulation for us. There's never really a lack of talking for us.

But yeah I'm worried it will end in flames from many arguments and disagreements. There have been times where I have wanted to just voice my thoughts without a filter, but I know that will turn things to the worse very quickly.

I think Uranus will be our savior. With the strong sextiles it makes in the composite chart, and the trine is makes in the synastry, a respect for both of our independence, autonomy, and a sense of space and freedom is what will make this work.

LASTLY, I don't know his birth time, so the houses could be all fugly. I was afraid to ask cuz I don't want to seem creepy. My best guess though is that he's a pisces rising. He kind of walks like a fish, and has that kind of watery and sensitive nature to him. And the Saturn in the 1st house seems to fit because he tends to have a depressing or defeatist outlook and subdued personality.

Anyway, thanks for anyone who provides their analysis

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Re: Will this relationship develop into something more?

Your Leo Sun is sextile his Chiron in Libra, in your 8th. The only other aspect with your Sun is a wide trine to Jupiter in Sag in your 11th.

So he does not cramp your style. This relationship gives you latitude and space to be yourself.

But does it also give you the ability to put your best foot forward, and put on a show, that is not totally YOU in every aspect?

Like it makes it possible to act in the best possible way to impress him and make his Chiron comfortable and feel safe—but maybe you are not being wholly authentic by hiding some of your true feelings or concerns?

Even though he has a Libra stellium, that Chiron shows that emotional/romantic relationships are difficult for him. He craves them and can ‘do them’ —but internally it is still a struggle.

His Venus is squared by his Uranus/Neptune in Capricorn. So his life goals and ambitions weigh heavily upon him. Time spent with lovers only take away from his ability to succeed and he feels torn?

The more he begins to feel for someone, the more he feels he is making a mistake and he may sabotage things, on purpose or subconsciously?

Your Mars/Mars Trine may save this relationship. I think that if you can be productive and ambitious, while hanging out with each other, it could be a successful relationship.

If you inspire each other to work on projects together or brainstorm or collaborate etc, it could be a positive way to avoid him bailing out.

As you mentioned, the elephant in the room is your Venus/Mars in Cancer squaring his Sun/Mercury/Chiron in Libra.

Will he worry that you are getting too emotionally invested? Will that Cardinal Air feel smothered by that Cardinal Water that is lurking below the surface?

I think the antidote to that square is the Water Grand Trine formed by his Mars@ 18 Scorpio, his Saturn @ 19 Pisces and your Mars @ 13 Cancer.

If you can pour that Mars in Cancer energy into a flowing Water Grand Trine, instead of a tense square to his Sun/Mercury, it will be awesome.

So don’t make your initial ‘goal’ to be a romantic relationship for now. That triggers the square to his Sun/Mercury/Chiron.

I would focus on his Mars Trine Saturn, and your Mars making it a Grand trine. How can you help him successfully and effectively use that Mars/Saturn? Can you concretely assist him in his work, ambitions, goals and do so as a loving partner?

Once he realises that you are an asset, as opposed to a distraction, impeding him from his ambitions, it will be amazing.


Your Mercury is in a tight applying square to his Pluto. And it is quincunxing his Uranus/Neptune. You can see into his soul. Use that power wisely and kindly.
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Re: Will this relationship develop into something more?

OH, and it must be noted, this guy represents your current Uranus transit.

Transiting Uranus is tightly conjunct your natal Saturn in Taurus.

That Saturn is square your natal Sun. Saturn is the apex of a fixed T-square.

So Uranus should indicate a major breakthrough of some kind for you. A release, a wall broken down, a sudden shift in consciousness, major change of plans.

So somehow, this relationship fits into that puzzle.

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Re: Will this relationship develop into something more?

Thank you very much Katydid for your analysis!
You've pointed things out to me that I wasn't aware of so this was very helpful

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Your Leo Sun is sextile his Chiron in Libra, in your 8th. The only other aspect with your Sun is a wide trine to Jupiter in Sag in your 11th.

So he does not cramp your style. This relationship gives you latitude and space to be yourself.

But does it also give you the ability to put your best foot forward, and put on a show, that is not totally YOU in every aspect?

Like it makes it possible to act in the best possible way to impress him and make his Chiron comfortable and feel safe—but maybe you are not being wholly authentic by hiding some of your true feelings or concerns?

Even though he has a Libra stellium, that Chiron shows that emotional/romantic relationships are difficult for him. He craves them and can ‘do them’ —but internally it is still a struggle.
That is sad with his chiron ):
But I definitely haven't been completely authentic. I don't want to be authentic cuz it will just damage things

his libra stellium though is so funny. I remember when he came to my apartment and he said I needed to decorate it cuz it looked so plain and grey. And he likes to cover his mouth because he doesn't want to be impolite. idk I just think that's so libran.

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His Venus is squared by his Uranus/Neptune in Capricorn. So his life goals and ambitions weigh heavily upon him. Time spent with lovers only take away from his ability to succeed and he feels torn?

The more he begins to feel for someone, the more he feels he is making a mistake and he may sabotage things, on purpose or subconsciously?
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Your Mars/Mars Trine may save this relationship. I think that if you can be productive and ambitious, while hanging out with each other, it could be a successful relationship.

If you inspire each other to work on projects together or brainstorm or collaborate etc, it could be a positive way to avoid him bailing out.
I will definitely try to focus on projects and productivity

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As you mentioned, the elephant in the room is your Venus/Mars in Cancer squaring his Sun/Mercury/Chiron in Libra.


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Will he worry that you are getting too emotionally invested? Will that Cardinal Air feel smothered by that Cardinal Water that is lurking below the surface?

I think the antidote to that square is the Water Grand Trine formed by his Mars@ 18 Scorpio, his Saturn @ 19 Pisces and your Mars @ 13 Cancer.

If you can pour that Mars in Cancer energy into a flowing Water Grand Trine, instead of a tense square to his Sun/Mercury, it will be awesome.

So don’t make your initial ‘goal’ to be a romantic relationship for now. That triggers the square to his Sun/Mercury/Chiron.

I would focus on his Mars Trine Saturn, and your Mars making it a Grand trine. How can you help him successfully and effectively use that Mars/Saturn? Can you concretely assist him in his work, ambitions, goals and do so as a loving partner?

Once he realises that you are an asset, as opposed to a distraction, impeding him from his ambitions, it will be amazing.
Okay yes I think you're right about an asset rather than a distraction. I will really try to focus on that. Help him build towards something greater in his life rather than just being some thing on the side sukking away time.

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Your Mercury is in a tight applying square to his Pluto. And it is quincunxing his Uranus/Neptune. You can see into his soul. Use that power wisely and kindly.
Omg I totally forgot about that aspect ahahaha

Did I mention that he's a socialist who loves bernie?
As a die hard capitalist and ayn rand lover, it has been so hard to keep things light and to completely pretend like I'm not a capitalist at all. I know that as soon as things become political everything will fall apart

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OH, and it must be noted, this guy represents your current Uranus transit.

Transiting Uranus is tightly conjunct your natal Saturn in Taurus.

That Saturn is square your natal Sun. Saturn is the apex of a fixed T-square.

So Uranus should indicate a major breakthrough of some kind for you. A release, a wall broken down, a sudden shift in consciousness, major change of plans.

So somehow, this relationship fits into that puzzle.
OMG I totally forgot about Uranus in my chart!! I definitely think that this relationship is highlighted in my Uranus transit. It makes so much sense.
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Re: Will this relationship develop into something more?

Katydid said it all and very well.
All I can ask is, how does a fish walk?
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Katydid said it all and very well.
hell yea she did

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All I can ask is, how does a fish walk?
ahaha
you know how fish swim side to side? and they do so pretty light and frilly because they're gliding under water?

well that's how pisces people walk. idk it could be complete nonsense.

but when I see him walk he kind of walks with his feet kind of turned outward, and there's a clear shift in his weight from side to side, like a fish or mermaid wags its tail to move through water, it's very piscean to me
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hell yea she did



ahaha
you know how fish swim side to side? and they do so pretty light and frilly because they're gliding under water?

well that's how pisces people walk. idk it could be complete nonsense.

but when I see him walk he kind of walks with his feet kind of turned outward, and there's a clear shift in his weight from side to side, like a fish or mermaid wags its tail to move through water, it's very piscean to me
Interesting idea. No one comes to mind at the moment that I know.

Maybe you should do it for noon until you have the right time, that would put the moon, fastest moving object, not too far from either end of its daily phase?
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Interesting idea. No one comes to mind at the moment that I know.

Maybe you should do it for noon until you have the right time, that would put the moon, fastest moving object, not too far from either end of its daily phase?
I have a really good feeling he's pisces rising, so its k
and I'll get his real time eventually
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I have a really good feeling he's pisces rising, so its k
and I'll get his real time eventually
Here is how I used to get potential boyfriends times of birth if I didnt want to make them think I was being invasive and looking up their charts.


You can say something like Are you a morning person or a late night person. People say that your time of birth affects that. Were you born at night or in the morning, etc etc...

from my experience, people were always eager to have that conversation and it easily narrowed it down to early morning or afternoon or late night etc...
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Here is how I used to get potential boyfriends times of birth if I didnt want to make them think I was being invasive and looking up their charts.


You can say something like Are you a morning person or a late night person. People say that your time of birth affects that. Were you born at night or in the morning, etc etc...

from my experience, people were always eager to have that conversation and it easily narrowed it down to early morning or afternoon or late night etc...
I will definitely try that out and see what he says
that's interesting though
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Oh hey, I'm happy for you
It's exciting to find someone new that can be part of our lives and it gives us joy.
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Oh hey, I'm happy for you
It's exciting to find someone new that can be part of our lives and it gives us joy.
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Appy went outside and met an actual human?! Wtf?!

I'm kidding, Apps. It's good you found someone, m8.

The reception between Mars-Mars and your Venus is odd. Cancer doesn't like Mars, so your Venus/Mars...hmm. On his side, Mars enjoys the reception from Cancer Mars, but cannot stand Venus....sexual tension? Ohh.
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Appy went outside and met an actual human?! Wtf?!

I'm kidding, Apps. It's good you found someone, m8.

The reception between Mars-Mars and your Venus is odd. Cancer doesn't like Mars, so your Venus/Mars...hmm. On his side, Mars enjoys the reception from Cancer Mars, but cannot stand Venus....sexual tension? Ohh.
Thanks blaze!

There's sexual release, but relationship tension, at least thats how I see it and feel it
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