FedorFan said:
Since Gemini is in Scorpio's eighth house. Or does Scorpio control Gemini?
[Moderator edit - Thread moved here, as thread-starter's attempt at answering the question is missing.]
Your question 'speaks to me' because of personal circumstances.
And i think I understand the spirit of the question. In terms of signs in quincunx to each other, by being in the 6th or 8 house position, there is kind of a natural urge to 'control' each other. That is where the awkward, uncomfortable nature of the quincunx comes from.
I have the sun @ zero Scorpio, while my 16 yr old daughter has her Sun @ zero Gemini. So, does the Scorpio mom control the Gemini daughter, or does the Gemini daughter control the Scorpio mom. Surprisingly, both circumstances are true.
My Scorpio nature and Mothering instincts do seek to 'control' her wilder, more free spirited impulses, and occasionally I succeed. At the same time, her urge for freedom, and spontaneity force me to let loose of my controls, and trust her to make good choices. For example, I no longer read her texts, like I did when she was 13.
She makes concessions as well. She actually likes it when I look at her potential bf's charts, and she is learning from it, where she used to think it was 'Psycho.'
Now she appreciates it.
So I think Scorpio 'controls' Gemini by trying to warn it about the potential destruction if they continue being so careless, and Gemini controls Scorpio by pointing out their unnecessary paranoia, and resisting it's power grab. :60: