Quicksilver82
Well-known member
Hi All,
I am a little confused as to how this whole synastry thing unfolds. I have been journaling my experiences in relationships over the last 6 months, and it seems that, for me, house overlays and planetary aspects have the exact opposite meaning of what I've been reading. Here's the latest example with a guy whom I was certain was my soulmate.
My Sun in his 4th - Supposedly, I bring my energy to him "home and roots" sector, right? Why is it that I am the one finding myself wanting to live with HIM, have children, settle down, etc.
His Sun in my 11th - I think he sees ME as more of a friend. Not the other way around.
My Venus in his 3rd - I love my conversations with him. I think he's one of the most intelligent, clever individuals I've ever met. I think I bore him more than anything.
His Venus in my 10th - Again, I look up to him. His creativity is amazing and I adore and covet his talents.
As for aspects....
My Sun is almost exactly conjunct his Venus - I think he's gorgeous, and would probably do anything for him. Not sure he feels the same way.
His Sun is widely conjunct my Pluto - yet I am obsessed with him???
I think it's interesting that we both have each other's Vertex conjunct the others ASC and we both have our Sun mutually aspecting each others moon via trine and sextile.
The problem is that over the past week, he has been gradually distancing himself. Fewer calls, texting, etc. Almost like doesn't want to be involved with me anymore. Very strange and confusing behavior.
So, I guess my question is two-fold: How are house overlays and aspects suppossed to work, because I am experiencing the opposite affects of everything I've read??? And 2, would someone be so kind as to look at our synastry chart (attached) and provide some insights / suggestions?
Thanks in advance!
I am a little confused as to how this whole synastry thing unfolds. I have been journaling my experiences in relationships over the last 6 months, and it seems that, for me, house overlays and planetary aspects have the exact opposite meaning of what I've been reading. Here's the latest example with a guy whom I was certain was my soulmate.
My Sun in his 4th - Supposedly, I bring my energy to him "home and roots" sector, right? Why is it that I am the one finding myself wanting to live with HIM, have children, settle down, etc.
His Sun in my 11th - I think he sees ME as more of a friend. Not the other way around.
My Venus in his 3rd - I love my conversations with him. I think he's one of the most intelligent, clever individuals I've ever met. I think I bore him more than anything.
His Venus in my 10th - Again, I look up to him. His creativity is amazing and I adore and covet his talents.
As for aspects....
My Sun is almost exactly conjunct his Venus - I think he's gorgeous, and would probably do anything for him. Not sure he feels the same way.
His Sun is widely conjunct my Pluto - yet I am obsessed with him???
I think it's interesting that we both have each other's Vertex conjunct the others ASC and we both have our Sun mutually aspecting each others moon via trine and sextile.
The problem is that over the past week, he has been gradually distancing himself. Fewer calls, texting, etc. Almost like doesn't want to be involved with me anymore. Very strange and confusing behavior.
So, I guess my question is two-fold: How are house overlays and aspects suppossed to work, because I am experiencing the opposite affects of everything I've read??? And 2, would someone be so kind as to look at our synastry chart (attached) and provide some insights / suggestions?
Thanks in advance!