Hi everyone,
so I split with my ex in July and it was very sudden, i've missed him since... can anyone have a look at the chart and see whether we will reconcile, and if yes when?
Many thanks
P
Quite a few have already given replies on this chart, so not sure if what I write will add something new.
He as mercury is in the 8th house, the house and sign of sex, scorpio. Separating from that abrupt separation from Uranus, on the 2nd cusp, so this has rocked your own self-esteem and given you a shaking. Uranus rules your 12th, so this is something from your subconscious, something from deep inside you that was touched, causing pain. The Jupiter/neptune square, your two co-significators, shows an internal conflict that you have.
He broke away so he can play the field and be free, which in effect is what he told you, he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now.
The moon has just changed signs, so the situation is off to a fresh start. It approaches Venus by trine, which is actually a positive sign, as Venus rules libra, which is contained in his 7th house. Having just entered scorpio, so it is now like mercury in the house and sign of sexual relations, this is what is on his mind right now, However, since Venus is weak here, in its detriment, he is in a certain sense worse off than before.
Moon will then move to sextile Uranus, your 2nd of values, and his 8th of sex, so the underlying emotional root of this drive of his will work itself out.
At which point moon will reach him as mercury by trine. There is a mutual reception between mercury and Jupiter by terms, which is not strong, but it backs up the trine from moon to mercury.
In addition, mercury will trine Neptune, which is you sitting on the ascendent, and the next planet mercury passes over will be Jupiter, your co-significator.
Neptune is also in mercury's terms, so receiving him when he arrives.
Neptune is known for its romance and infatuation, but also indecision, uncertainty, lack of confidence. These last traits tie in with the 12th ruler on your 2nd house.
In the meantime, try to understand this weak spot inside yourself, put your finger on it and heal this wound, so that when he returns, which just might happen, you will be ready, and won't find yourself repeating the same errors with him.
Please don't take this as saying you are guilty of something, but the actions and reactions between two people can take many forms, and something was off in how you two reacted to each other. One needed and the other couldn't give. One came to realise something was missing while the other was still sliding along unaware.
The moon in a horary indicates what is really on our mind, and the moon just past the ascendent and diving into the depths of the 12th tends to reconfirm to me that you are going through this phase to stimulate your growth. Make the most of it.
I won't give an idea of timing as I don't feel confident about doing this.
Also, this reply seems to go contrary to what was written before me, so keep us posted as to how it works out. Relax and ride it out.