We hear a lot about Pluto on here but I have yet to see a serious talk about Pluto and love. How crazy is it? What are your insights and experiences with this?
I have heavy Pluto. Venus opp Pluto. So everybody in my generation I have it with. Iāve got Venus chart ruler.. something Iāve wanted to chat with someone about actually, the impact this will have on my overall personality.
When you say heavy Pluto what do u mean?
In general Pluto is pretty prominent in my chart. Aspecting all personal planets and a significant, I would say, 8th house
I see. Would you say you get crazy in love? Like bunny boiler š°
Love (what I know of it) has helped to realise things within myself and so helped me to transform heavily. Itās a learning matter for all I suppose
I understand and yes thatās true. With love you learn a lot about yourself. Do u think your Pluto comes out though? Like do I get obsessed with it etc
I appreciate this thread actually. Would be nice to hear some positive information on this aspect. In terms of the good you can get out of the transformations through relationships in them showing you about yourself. Cause Iām still on this journey.
For a long time I could notice that I was seeing myself in others... but I was afraid of it in myself.
I clung to some people in my life for a while that showed me parts of myself but very, very north node in 1st type of way. No escape.
Plenty related to this aspect is what provoked me to delve into my pluto issues...
Pluto has passion and depth and is no means fickle or superficial and in that sense itās so strong and powerful in a love chart. It depends on how we use it or how we see it. Iāve seen a lot of crazy love and thatās why I was asking what aspects of Pluto cause this. Iāve inky ever come across crazy love but I think with Pluto there can be true love even though I read somewhere that Pluto doesnāt represent love it represents people and obsession. I think that all planets have a good and bad side so Pluto can be good in love. Well I hope it can but I donāt know what the positive of it looks like.
When I think of Pluto I think of intense deep passion and hunger. Strong determination and willpower. That can be used positively like anything but I donāt know how.
I understand where youāre coming from. It can feel like obsession yes and thatās what Iāve struggled with in the past. In my opinion love shouldnāt be wanting to obtain and hold something until the death of you. Pluto Venus can have you feeling like that. I had to learn to stop projecting and take ownership and put that strength into something for myself. Obviously, it really isnāt easy, and itās taking back a lifetime of projection.
Itās interesting because itās not reversible either, as weāve said before, our chart is our chart for life... so as much as itās painful, the only way would be to transfer to something else and keep reminding self that this the souls journey !!!! Ahhhhh šI know where your coming from as Iāve been there too. Where the relationship is far too controlling and about power. Once out of all that it feels like a huuuge weight off my shoulders. Yes thatās great advice about using that strength for something for you. Itās amazing how strong you can feel after your āreleasedā as it does feel like a trap when your in the thick of it
Itās interesting because itās not reversible either, as weāve said before, our chart is our chart for life... so as much as itās painful, the only way would be to transfer to something else and keep reminding self that this the souls journey !!!! Ahhhhh š
I may not be a good person to talk about love, with my unaspected Venus. My experience with Pluto is more about commitment and power (Pluto/Sun/Mars, 8H Pluto). It doesn't help that I also have Scorpio NN in 7H. I absolutely DESPISE betrayal. I have very high level of commitment and I expect people to do the same to me. I also have a tendency to remember betrayal ("betrayal" may sound pretty dramatic. It's because I put everything that goes against an agreement as betrayal. Scorpio much?). I can get very overbearing to some people who like to be more casual. It's just because I value relationship and I only want serious commitment. This is really out-of-character for a Gemini. But my Gemini side only appears to people whom I don't think worth my time. If you see my Scorpio side, you should feel honored.
I may not be a good person to talk about love, with my unaspected Venus. My experience with Pluto is more about commitment and power (Pluto/Sun/Mars, 8H Pluto). It doesn't help that I also have Scorpio NN in 7H. I absolutely DESPISE betrayal. I have very high level of commitment and I expect people to do the same to me. I also have a tendency to remember betrayal ("betrayal" may sound pretty dramatic. It's because I put everything that goes against an agreement as betrayal. Scorpio much?). I can get very overbearing to some people who like to be more casual. It's just because I value relationship and I only want serious commitment. This is really out-of-character for a Gemini. But my Gemini side only appears to people whom I don't think worth my time. If you see my Scorpio side, you should feel honored.
You know, I get this. I think it can be what makes it a bit of a difficult aspect in general apart from the fact of it being an opposition anyway. I have a Gemini Venus but opposite Pluto. My Gemini Venus is very, what some would say superficial. Iām interested in socialising and enjoying varied good company. But when I spot potential, I donāt have the same Gemini energy, and I expect commitment. I KNOW that I feel that stronger pull towards someone but I just want to be a social butterfly now and then and treat them like a friend too. But I would never ever be unfaithful.