craft94
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Forget the whole element thing. I was referring to Katydid's post(s) about Gemini Moon/Uranus/Sagittarius Mars/mutable squares). I think it's best for her to move on, but I don't think it's because of those placements, they may be difficult but I don't think those placements make someone undateable, which seems to be implied. We all have demons but what's the quote? we all need someone whose demons play well with ours. I think it's best in general not to stay too attached to one individual because even if he does turn around and decides he wants commitment, it will be on his terms...you can't expect anything or you'll get hurt...I think it's best to keep your options open, date other guys, if anything happpens (with any of them), it will develop naturallyHis being fire and earth dominant (because he really only has one planet in air, discounting Pluto because it stays in the same sign for over a decade) is so far from the point. I didn't even realize the elements of his charts until this was mentioned. You're also creating a false dichotomy here -- fire/air vs earth/water -- as if those are the only two elemental dominants a person can have, or there even needs to be an element which is predominant.
I don't think anyone here even mentioned the elements his planets were in. I re-read the posts to make sure, and nope. Of course fire/air men are capable of commitment. My bf's brother is Gemini Sun and Mercury with Leo stellium and he's attached at the hip to his gf. Even more attached than my bf is, and he's got the three water signs in Sun, Moon, Ascendant, with Capricorn Mars traditionally ruling the Asc. I think we all know men with fire and air dominant who are happily committed.
Back to the point -- his mindset and behavior is the problem. The chart gives us the basis and specifics of his issues, but the man has said he doesn't want to be in a relationship not just to Bluebell but to other women he has been involved with and clearly shows commitment aversion. No astrological knowledge is necessary to see that. I'm glad she is going to move on...hopefully she will move on.
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