Thanks Ilenek!
What you describe sounds very familiar to me.
Just for learning, because I am a starter in horary...
I am Venus and he is Mars. Can you give me some points in the chart of your description?
Again, your help is precious for me!
Thank you very much!
Yes, you are Venus and he is Mars. You have more strength in this matter than he, based on essential dignity.
This is because you Venus is in its dignity while he Mars is without essential dignity, or peregrine.
But the main things I saw were that:
He Mars receives you adversely or poorly by reception, since you Venus are in the sign of Mars' detriment.
Venus just perfected an aspect with Mars and now separates from Mars. That says to me that what may have been between you, [the perfection of the aspect] is now past.
We can look also at Moon as an alternate significator for you:
It, too, is strong, in its exaltation. But it is disjunct Mars, 5 signs apart, and this is symbolic of not being able to see each other.
Moon, like Venus, is also adversely received by Mars, being in the other sign of its detriment.
And Moon is in your/1st house, which suggests that the emphasis for you is on yourself rather than him.
When I looked at that all together, it evoked the general portrait that I painted for you.