Does he still love me? Should I send email?

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gizela

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We met together I with Miko on21st of July 2014 in Chlopy (near Koszalin in Poland)

We are in relationship from 28st of August

But... he were not fair.. I knew that he was taking marihuana but he lies me how often..
So I decided to talk with his and his mother on Monday.
What's more he installed on 7th of May 2015 tinder ! and started using ..;/

Now we do not talk together from Monday He also doesn't talk with his mother.

Is he faithfull? Will he change his mind and stop using drugs? Is it possible?
Does he still love me?
Can he be a good father?

He borned on 31st of Marh 1985 Poznan Poland (graph attached as "MIko"0
my Graph attached as "ja"


Should I call/write to him(i prepared long mail about my feelings very sincerely...) but did not send to him right now.

Should I sent today?
 

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Moondancing

Moondancing

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You have made yourself clear to him the next move is his. He needs to come to you and make it understood he is with you and will not take drugs. Don't accept anything less. Lying and drugs is a major red flag (warning). These are the things we look for early in relationships before we commit to them.

Best wishes,

Moondance

Some things you don't need a chart.
 
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gizela

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Moondancing said:
You have made yourself clear to him the next move is his. He needs to come to you and make it understood he is with you and will not take drugs. Don't accept anything less. Lying and drugs is a major red flag (warning). These are the things we look for early in relationships before we commit to them.

Best wishes,

Moondance

Some things you don't need a chart.
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thanks
you have the right

I do not like wait..
4 days today withous speaking and messages etc. eh..
 
Moondancing

Moondancing

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You could send the letter to him. Follow your heart, but you still might not hear from him. Love relationships test us to the max.
 
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gizela

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We talked on Monday but truly said I do not feel well
He said that I should not speak his mother about drugs etc.

He agreed go to some therapeut ONCE (only once) but quite good that we will go..

Second, It seems that he manipulates me..

Is he fair for me?
Today/tomorrow I will say him about my feelings
That he does not want to say that he flirted..
 
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