All of us have some picture of our soul mate, how he/she should look like, what personality must have, etc.. But are we always right?
For a long time I would always imagine myself with some water sign, mostly Cancer. I would say, how they are emotional, careful, protective. If someone asked me for other placements, I would add Pisces Moon or similar (won't say soft, rather warm, emotional) placements. If you take a look at my chart, you will see also one Pisces Moon, Cancer Mars, Venus in 4th.. seems like my planet positions seek for it.
The last sign on my list or any placement there is Libra. I'm not fan of Libra man way of acting, but this is the sign which I attract the most. Very strange thing, my 12th house is in Libra, there must be some subconscious thing, the reason of my aversion over them, and the reason why I always get in some contact with this sign. As I'm not fan of them in relationship, I can be very good friend with these people.
Geminis I've always found detached and cold before. Would say - No way I could be with one, I need someone careful and sensitive, not two-faced selfish player. But there is huge attraction from both sides, can blame my 8th house in Gemini. First Gemini decan placements fall into my 7th, other two decans fall into 8th. My SN which is in conjunction to my Vertex, sits in 8th house in Gemini and often touches Gemini personal planets.
In my chart, water and air are dominant. No matter how much I want someone's deep emotions, I also want freedom, free space. Yes I have Capricorn Sun, Pisces Moon, Mars in Cancer, but my Aquarius Venus, Sun in 3rd, my Uranus in opposition to Mars, conjunction to Sun, sextile to Moon, Mars in 9th need it, not to have feel that I'm in chains, but still someone to adores me.
After few experiences with Cancers and Scorpios, realized there must always end with some conflict, jealousy, possessiveness from their side, drama. Cancer for example, with Cancer Venus can be even more jealous, Leo Venus also likes drama.
But I found how I am actually **** good with Gemini guys.
Then I started to experiment on my chart. As I have 8th house in Gemini like I said, their Sun must fall into my 7th or 8th. I'm a Scorpio ASC with Pluto in 1st squaring my Venus, so their energy here makes me feel comfortable, I can talk with them about deep, secretive, mysterious things, taboos, to open my mind and they will understand me. Then that "cold" Gemini Venus could fall there too, even to touch my SN and Vertex, it can only mean to bring love and in 8th house deep emotions and sexual attraction, there could be that Scorpio energy, not 5th house thing, fun and play, but true connection, it could also trine my Venus. Now what about that Libra placements, what if Gemini has Libra Moon. His Moon can fall into my 11th house, very very harmonic, positive placement, my Aquarius Venus will find this nice. And not to be all air, he must have some water cause of my other planet positions. Maybe Cancer Mars would be fine for Gemini, or Mercury in Cancer as Mercury is always like Venus near Sun, or both Mercury and Mars, as they would fall into my 9th house probably and we would share similar spiritual views, philosophy of life, and travel together (I love to travel a lot). So maybe here Cancer would spread that Cancerian energy but in positive way, give to Gemini a bit of water but not dramatic personality.
I want to mention that of course it doesn't mean every Cancer and Scorpio can be bad match and Gemini good one, cause you can see whole picture after you have someone's whole chart in front of you. I just wanted to share my thoughts on it, I really didn't have good experience with people with strong energy of signs I thought are fine for me and opposite. And all of us can work on good and hard placements, but it can be hard if only one of two is ready for it. Cancers can be really hard in it, too afraid to leave their shell.
Aspects are important part of synastry but I will not go into that now, as I would be much boring and make too much confusion.
Anybody here tried similar, and met someone who matches your description, what do you think? Or if not, simply, what do you think on this?
For a long time I would always imagine myself with some water sign, mostly Cancer. I would say, how they are emotional, careful, protective. If someone asked me for other placements, I would add Pisces Moon or similar (won't say soft, rather warm, emotional) placements. If you take a look at my chart, you will see also one Pisces Moon, Cancer Mars, Venus in 4th.. seems like my planet positions seek for it.
The last sign on my list or any placement there is Libra. I'm not fan of Libra man way of acting, but this is the sign which I attract the most. Very strange thing, my 12th house is in Libra, there must be some subconscious thing, the reason of my aversion over them, and the reason why I always get in some contact with this sign. As I'm not fan of them in relationship, I can be very good friend with these people.
Geminis I've always found detached and cold before. Would say - No way I could be with one, I need someone careful and sensitive, not two-faced selfish player. But there is huge attraction from both sides, can blame my 8th house in Gemini. First Gemini decan placements fall into my 7th, other two decans fall into 8th. My SN which is in conjunction to my Vertex, sits in 8th house in Gemini and often touches Gemini personal planets.
In my chart, water and air are dominant. No matter how much I want someone's deep emotions, I also want freedom, free space. Yes I have Capricorn Sun, Pisces Moon, Mars in Cancer, but my Aquarius Venus, Sun in 3rd, my Uranus in opposition to Mars, conjunction to Sun, sextile to Moon, Mars in 9th need it, not to have feel that I'm in chains, but still someone to adores me.
After few experiences with Cancers and Scorpios, realized there must always end with some conflict, jealousy, possessiveness from their side, drama. Cancer for example, with Cancer Venus can be even more jealous, Leo Venus also likes drama.
But I found how I am actually **** good with Gemini guys.
Then I started to experiment on my chart. As I have 8th house in Gemini like I said, their Sun must fall into my 7th or 8th. I'm a Scorpio ASC with Pluto in 1st squaring my Venus, so their energy here makes me feel comfortable, I can talk with them about deep, secretive, mysterious things, taboos, to open my mind and they will understand me. Then that "cold" Gemini Venus could fall there too, even to touch my SN and Vertex, it can only mean to bring love and in 8th house deep emotions and sexual attraction, there could be that Scorpio energy, not 5th house thing, fun and play, but true connection, it could also trine my Venus. Now what about that Libra placements, what if Gemini has Libra Moon. His Moon can fall into my 11th house, very very harmonic, positive placement, my Aquarius Venus will find this nice. And not to be all air, he must have some water cause of my other planet positions. Maybe Cancer Mars would be fine for Gemini, or Mercury in Cancer as Mercury is always like Venus near Sun, or both Mercury and Mars, as they would fall into my 9th house probably and we would share similar spiritual views, philosophy of life, and travel together (I love to travel a lot). So maybe here Cancer would spread that Cancerian energy but in positive way, give to Gemini a bit of water but not dramatic personality.
I want to mention that of course it doesn't mean every Cancer and Scorpio can be bad match and Gemini good one, cause you can see whole picture after you have someone's whole chart in front of you. I just wanted to share my thoughts on it, I really didn't have good experience with people with strong energy of signs I thought are fine for me and opposite. And all of us can work on good and hard placements, but it can be hard if only one of two is ready for it. Cancers can be really hard in it, too afraid to leave their shell.
Aspects are important part of synastry but I will not go into that now, as I would be much boring and make too much confusion.
Anybody here tried similar, and met someone who matches your description, what do you think? Or if not, simply, what do you think on this?
