Thanks a lot IleneK for your help and advice. i Am much indebted to you that you felt sympathetic to me.
actually,I am seeing a counselor and these are the same advises that she gives me. I know they are the best worldly advises. The thing is, i am concerned about outwardly signals.A few of my dreams have come true before, so its actually confusing. I posted once about this and all of my kind helpers pointed out that i should not forsake the dreams-this passion has some meaning. but then a tarot reading from one of them revealed that we are not meant for each other.its very very confusing.
to cut it short,yes-as my dreams came true before and we never had any obsessive relationship among us(I even dont think of him that much when I am awake) I cant confidently work on ending this passion in fear of ignoring karma.
Please help me if possible. I am sorry if I am taking undue advantage of your kindness.
Thank you for sharing this additional information. I am glad you are seeing a counselor to help suppoet you with this.
I do understand how you may want to keep the passion in your dreams, as you say, "i should not forsake the dreams-this passion has some meaning." Jungian psychological analysis has an interesting and somewhat different way of looking at dreams than the way you are looking at them. They say, yes, the feelings are real, but persons, things, events in a dream are
symbolic. The persons and objects and events
stand for or
represent something important for you, and something other than what they appear to be
literally in the dream.
So I appreciate that you want to keep the passion, and that also some of your dreams have come true. But of all the many, many dreams you have had, only a very small number of the total have come true. So if this is not one to come true, but you have it all the time, then maybe you can try to find out what it means in this other, Jungian way? Perhaps you can try to figure out what this person from 18 years long ago
represents or
stands for in your life or in your destiny?
If you are interested to know more about this, you may want to refer to some introductory work on the symbolic interpretation of dreams to get a better idea of what I am talking about.