MidnightxPoison
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I'm curious. Has anyone ever been told that you "close your self off from others?" As a person with Scorpio Moon I'm very private about issues (always have been since I was young), and my family members don't understand this and it makes me feel like an alien.
Instead they blame me for not being close with them, and that I started this "problem/conflict".
It upsets me, because they are making me feel like "I'm wrong." They don't understand that it's just part of my personality, I'm on the quiet side, and have my own personal life. I don't share my personal life with others I dont trust and it takes me a long time to really open up to others. My family doesn't get this, especially my mother. It's very frustrating, and it hurts too because my mum has always confronted me about this (it's very uncomfortable for me) and then I'd have to explain over and over again and she still won't get it.
I like being alone in my room because then I can contemplate on things, it's my way of "grounding" myself off all the crazy intense feelings I experience in my daily life. Mum thought I was being a "depressed loner" or "moody" or something like that.. which, of course, is totally not the case. I just want my own space. It's how I manage to acquire some inner contentment for once in a while.. but my mum always invades my privacy too much because she has this weird way of thinking that I am delibaretly trying to shut people out or going "loony/crazy" on my own, lol.
I've also been accused of seeming "emotionally cold" when compared to other family members (I guess my Virgo Sun isn't helping much either) who are (except my father) very warm and open about how they feel (like, for instance, my fortunate brother in this field). But I'm just introverted that way and I can't help it. It's who I am. I just don't understand why others can't accept that not everyone are as extroverted as them.
I feel like my mother just doesn't really understand who I really am inside. She thinks I don't feel anything but I do and probably a lot more than her (she's Pisces Moon, Taurus Sun). But just because I don't show it doesn't mean I am "emotionally cold" for real.
I've read somewhere that Scorpio Moon people have some issues with their mothers. I wonder if it's just us feeling this way because Scorpio tends to brood over things or if it's more of a karmic thing that the Scorpio person picks up on ('cause my mum, right now, actually thinks we get along great or.. well, this is what she tells other people).
Anyone else here have this problem because you are a Scorpio or have Scorpio influence?
Instead they blame me for not being close with them, and that I started this "problem/conflict".
It upsets me, because they are making me feel like "I'm wrong." They don't understand that it's just part of my personality, I'm on the quiet side, and have my own personal life. I don't share my personal life with others I dont trust and it takes me a long time to really open up to others. My family doesn't get this, especially my mother. It's very frustrating, and it hurts too because my mum has always confronted me about this (it's very uncomfortable for me) and then I'd have to explain over and over again and she still won't get it.
I like being alone in my room because then I can contemplate on things, it's my way of "grounding" myself off all the crazy intense feelings I experience in my daily life. Mum thought I was being a "depressed loner" or "moody" or something like that.. which, of course, is totally not the case. I just want my own space. It's how I manage to acquire some inner contentment for once in a while.. but my mum always invades my privacy too much because she has this weird way of thinking that I am delibaretly trying to shut people out or going "loony/crazy" on my own, lol.
I've also been accused of seeming "emotionally cold" when compared to other family members (I guess my Virgo Sun isn't helping much either) who are (except my father) very warm and open about how they feel (like, for instance, my fortunate brother in this field). But I'm just introverted that way and I can't help it. It's who I am. I just don't understand why others can't accept that not everyone are as extroverted as them.
I feel like my mother just doesn't really understand who I really am inside. She thinks I don't feel anything but I do and probably a lot more than her (she's Pisces Moon, Taurus Sun). But just because I don't show it doesn't mean I am "emotionally cold" for real.
I've read somewhere that Scorpio Moon people have some issues with their mothers. I wonder if it's just us feeling this way because Scorpio tends to brood over things or if it's more of a karmic thing that the Scorpio person picks up on ('cause my mum, right now, actually thinks we get along great or.. well, this is what she tells other people).
Anyone else here have this problem because you are a Scorpio or have Scorpio influence?
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