Abby83
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More self development questions.
Some ppl find it really easy to understand who they are/their identity. I on the other hand do not. I am such a mixed bag. One of the things I think about the most is my femininity and maintaining that through the challenges and rediscovering it when I get lost.
One thing ive come across recently is something called feminine dominant. Ive never experienced this in life as the women in my family have all been aggressive masculine type of women. My friends are sweet kind women but not too feminine or dominant. Ive always just categorised women to be dominant/masculine or feminine/submissive. I always thought feminine was submissive. Obviously im wrong.
So then I wondered what I am? I know im a woman who has made far too many sacrifices. I honestly see myself as a feminine yet independent woman. I guess I went off track a bit when motherhood kicked in. I totally lost my independence. I became very feminine when I became a mum and focused solely on motherhood, but it led to being abused for 8 years by my mother in law - so im definitely not dominant either in a masculine or feminine way. Which leads me to label myself as 'feminine independent.' Interesting though is that feminine energy is all about being protected by the male so the woman can nurture the children without getting paid. I didn't get that as a mum, so I find myself having to be independent. So I call myself feminine independent if that makes sense.
So I look to the chart. I guess this can be shown with all the sag planets. Moon in sag 1st house (moon represents me as a mother right?) and ceres in aqua 4th house.
Do you guys reckon you can see what kind of woman (feminine submissive/feminine dominant/ masculine or other) I am based on the chart? Thank you.
Some ppl find it really easy to understand who they are/their identity. I on the other hand do not. I am such a mixed bag. One of the things I think about the most is my femininity and maintaining that through the challenges and rediscovering it when I get lost.
One thing ive come across recently is something called feminine dominant. Ive never experienced this in life as the women in my family have all been aggressive masculine type of women. My friends are sweet kind women but not too feminine or dominant. Ive always just categorised women to be dominant/masculine or feminine/submissive. I always thought feminine was submissive. Obviously im wrong.
So then I wondered what I am? I know im a woman who has made far too many sacrifices. I honestly see myself as a feminine yet independent woman. I guess I went off track a bit when motherhood kicked in. I totally lost my independence. I became very feminine when I became a mum and focused solely on motherhood, but it led to being abused for 8 years by my mother in law - so im definitely not dominant either in a masculine or feminine way. Which leads me to label myself as 'feminine independent.' Interesting though is that feminine energy is all about being protected by the male so the woman can nurture the children without getting paid. I didn't get that as a mum, so I find myself having to be independent. So I call myself feminine independent if that makes sense.
So I look to the chart. I guess this can be shown with all the sag planets. Moon in sag 1st house (moon represents me as a mother right?) and ceres in aqua 4th house.
Do you guys reckon you can see what kind of woman (feminine submissive/feminine dominant/ masculine or other) I am based on the chart? Thank you.
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