As I've gotten into astrology I've sort of realized that I believe planets in houses are stronger than planets conjunct other planets, etc.
This is not necessarily a proven astrological fact, it's just what I believe.
So what do you think? How do you think Venus and/or the 5th/7th houses correlate to your love life? Does one correlate more to your life than other placements? What makes somebody attracyive in a natal chart? Would having Venus in the 5th house attract people more than having it in the 1st house?
And what's the difference between having a planet in the 5th/7th house versus having a planet aspect the ruler of that house?
Well, I believe there are two ways I as a male veiw attraction. One with Venus, the other with the Moon. These planets are about 16° apart for me so they don't connect. And I notice it. There's a side of me that looks at a woman and is attracted to her but doesn't wish to have a relationship with her and that is the Venus side. Venus for me is aries. The women that I feel this way towards have a connection to mars usually with the sun or moon. And aries rules mars. These women are also commonly aries sun signs or other cardinal signs. Now, with the Moon I may not always feel an instant connection. My moon is in Pisces aspected by Saturn mercury Jupiter Neptune and Chiron. The women I feel are wife material usually have strong Mercury's and sun's conjunction Mercury. Mercury is sextile my moon. Mercury is in taurus and I've noticed that earth signs and Libra are wife material. Saturn is conj my moon and I find that I don't feel at home unless a person has a strong Saturn. I usually don't even make very good friends with those who don't connect with Saturn well, Jupiter is square my moon and I often feel no connection with women who have a strong Jupiter.
I'd say the moon is most important for living with someone kind of realtionships and venus definitely rules sexual attraction (in men) It's nice to have a partner that can meet both needs. I've found that in Libras, Capricorns, and Taurus. And definitely someone with a Pisces Moon. Idk why but having the same moon sign just lights my fire for some reason. I've found that women who have a mars that connects to my moon find me attractive. And transits definitely help make you "attractive" I swear, whenever a big planet like Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, etc. conj my moon/sun/AC I attract women who embody those planets. It's like if your chart has a strong planet, then that planet by transit is like a focus for those people and they gravitate towards whatever sign it's in. This was very obvious first with Jupiter and Uranus conj my moon then with Jupiter on my sun and Uranus on My AC and now again with Uranus on my Sun and Neptune on my moon. I find that certain transits are more fruitful than others, If you know what I mean. Like transits over the fifth house and second house.
