I think lot of Virgos don't feel like Virgos, I'm a Virgo with mars in Virgo conjunct, I'm so messy. The dishes are sitting in my sink dirty. When I do clean I'm insane and OCD about it but 90 percent of the time I'm a slob. I also don't care about my own mess but another persons mess makes me crazy.
People do consider me funny though. I think can attribute that to my Virgo. Not many astrologers talk about how funny Virgos are because we see such mundane details of life and weird idiosyncrasies that no one thinks about, but we can make a joke out of it. Louis CK is a Virgo and his dark humor reminds me of my own.
We also see through BS, it's hard to fool a Virgo similar to Scorpio. Scorpio I think may tend to feel emotional undercurrents where as Virgo notices subtle changes in behavior, unusual body language and tone of voice. Hard for me to say for sure because I have Virgo Sun and Scorpio Moon so I'm not sure exactly where the energy comes from. I just know I'm only fooled when I choose to be fooled.
Virgo is about self-improvement, self awareness, and are the lone wolves of the zodiac in my opinion.
I also think we'll never be satisfied with the lazy job astrologers do to try to explain us lol. I'm not a prude and mars in Virgo is not a prude. It's hard to truly own a Virgo even if you think you do, very independent. I don't like to ask for help or depend on others and when I do have to due to life circumstances I feel very guilty or anxious.