Look, Gemini888, if you or anyone is clinically depressed, that's a specific issue. It requires professional assistance from a licensed psychiatrist or psychologist, not from well-meaning friends or family members. If someone is diagnosed with depression (vs. normal moodiness or sadness) I think it is fair to suggest that this person seek professional assistance.
I don't mean to pick on you personally, Gemini888, but I was married for 20 years to a sun-Gemini with his Saturn-Pluto conjunct in Cancer. I don't have a birth time for him, but I know his moon was in Cancer, as the moon did not change signs on his birth date. I'm pretty sure his moon conjuncted Saturn and Pluto.
Generally we got along well, with trined suns and conjunct out-of-sign moons. But brother, did he get into some foul, dark moods.
Me: "What's wrong?"
Him: "Nothing."
I mean, a child could see that he was in a vile temper, as did many of his associates. There was nothing I could do to fix it, but it dragged me down into a lot of worry and stress.
I believe his brother really suffered from depression and panic attacks. He had a "bucket" chart, with Mars retrograde in Pisces as the handle. My ex-brother-in-law would often complain about how life was unfair to him, but really resented anyone offering him suggestions about how to improve his situation. (Hence, my wondering, why complain to people at all?)
So, it makes me wonder, how you behave around people when you feel depressed.
Whether you mean to or not, you are probably presenting yourself as asking for advice, but when they give it, you get mad at them.
A special case is with people who grew up on farms, ranches, or other situations where getting gloomy about something really wasn't an option. If they couldn't suck it up and get on with the chores, they would have jeopardized a lot more than just their own feelings.
In your chart Saturn square Mercury is a recipe for depressed (Saturn) thinking (Mercury.)
Rather than put the onus on other people for not responding as you wish, it seems to me that it is your responsibility to take charge of your behaviour and your relationships with others. Perhaps this should be done with professional support.