No I never dated and only had two girlfriends. The people I date seem stupid to me, so I've decided to wait until people my age are older and smarter.
I am very romantic though and naive. I ended my most recent relationship because I felt like I was being used, which took me forever to figure out.
Kitchy is 7th house sun, too you can ask her. And being 7th house Sun, relationships are really important to me.
Sun Square Saturn seems to be the culprit in this need for maturity. 3rd House would be early childhood, so perhaps when you were young you just had this mature and diplomatic way of expressing yourself and now can't seem to fathom choosing someone that doesn't have that ability.
Being used is so unfortunate...I don't wish it upon anyone. The Sun can be blinding in terms of relationships, but the ethusiasm is there! You once told the forum that you envy people with Mars in the 1st house.
I know a lot of wonderful and successful women with mars in the 1st house, so I shared your envy! But now I see that your Mars is in the 7th...
Does this mean you attract strong people? People who are attracted by this Martian way you express yourself in foreign situations?
People who may be too heavy handed for your sensibilities? Venus is swimming by on the cusp of the 6th/7th...So you want a sensitive girl that is also practical.
Maybe you will meet a girl at work or who you enjoy doing everyday things with. I know thats vague...I mean doesnt everyone want to do that?
Hmm kinda.. but I have known people who are complete opposite to that!