Yeah, a lot of things came to light when I looked at my chart. My parents have gotten ridiculously controlling. They do things simiilarly to what your father did. This transit must have started a long time ago. They (my dad) forced me to leave the bathroom door open at all times, limited how much food I could eat, etc. On the health thing, I have been sick a lot actually, more than usual. And I definately feel like an old soul. I think that angers my parents even more. Me and my mother had a terrible fight on christmas eve actually. Well it wasn't a fight per se, it was her attacking and me pushing her away.
It's creepy- their behavior. I know how it feels. I hadn't had it easy peasy. I moved out when I was 16 because of it, although my parents weren't acting like that really. They were doing it a different way.
Since you're turning 18 soon, have you thought about making arrangements to maybe get your own place? I know it would be tough to do it, but if you start putting money aside and all then you can be prepared to get your own place and everything. It'll be hard, but it can be done. Do you have friends you can stay with?
Are you planning to go to college at all? There are many options out there. It's not healthy to live like that. What are their reasons for doing this?
It does sound a lot like what I had to deal with growing up as well honestly. But my parents also left me to my own demises as well. They were severe alcoholics and didn't act like they cared and then suddenly they would care too much. I was like, nope- I'm out.
And also, I had to go back at age 20 until I was 22 and that was just as bad. When I left that time, I told myself never again. It took me years to finally forgive my mom. I forgave her because I realized she's only human too. i have an Aries mom, libra step dad, and Scorpio real dad. I know they love me, just like your parents surely love you. Parents just have a strange or even bad way of showing it sometimes.
And also, you should go to college if you can. I'm making my daughter go to college whether she likes it or not. She knows this.