Dear Community Members,
I have been into a relationship for the past almost 2 years, and it has seen a lot of ups and downs since then.
I met this lady through facebook in July 2011 and we became friends. She is married but seperated, having 3 kids, 1 permanently living with her husband and other 2 spending time with both.
We became friends immediately, and i had going through a major major break up in those days. So she was kinda helping me out with that. In those days, she was also having disputes with her husband, details of which i got to know later. She gave me hints , that helped me understand that we were mutually attracted, and i also realised it. Finaly in on December 26th i tried to express my self and we ended up having a fight, and then we never spoke to each other for next 6 months.
Then again in last week of July 2012, i called her up randomly for something and our feelings got ignited again. All this time , i was thinking about her, and she also said to me that she had been thinking about me. I told her that my feelings for her were genuine and she acknowledged it.
We were again all over each other, and started even making love with each other. She said that she had accepted me as her husband already because her real husband did not exist. I told her that she has to take divorce, but she gave me the rationale that she has accepted me, and it is all about what you feel. So i also started thinking about it in this way.
So , after we got back together in July 2012, up till now , there have been number of differences and disputes and complications, we always got back together.
We were spending almost every minute together all this time, as we were connected on messengers, phone and sleeping with our skype cameras on so that we see each other when we get up in the morning. If she got afraid in the middle of night, she would call me and ask me to stay up with her till she sleeps again.
In the last week of April 2013, i asked her to tell me what is she going to do about every thing. We also had a fight on 28th April, but we reconciled. But the answers she gave me were too confusing then.
I had made some astrological predictions for us as well, according to which, her divorce process would get initiated somewhere in April 2013. The talks got started but ended fruitless as all of the family members think it will get resolved with time.
Since, my predictions missed the timelines, therefore I would now want to put this matter in an open forum with new charts for other experts to come and comment on the situation and guide me.
She asked me to make her chart:
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She asked me to cast a chart, in which she wanted me to see, what was the future. So on her behalf phrased the question "Whether it is going to work out with her husband?" The chart that was made is attached as (Wheel ).
Saturn Retrograde in House No: 01, straight NO. She being Venus, and her husband being Mars (Detriment), no aspects between them.
One conjunction between Venus and Jupiter (Detriment) which is ruler of her fifth house, 6 degrees away from perfection. I don’t know whether to place myself in her 5th house is appropriate. If yes, then my situation should actually be getting better due to the applying conjunction between venus and jupiter. Whereas apparently it is not.
Week ago, in order to reconcile we were talking and I told her that she knows that im honest with her, and she has to be honest with me as well.
Situation Now:
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We do talk but she is actually pulling back from me as she says she doesnt want to talk much to me. It actually started happening from 11th of May 2013. She delays answers to my BBM messages. Frequency of our late night talks is going down. We don’t see each other on Skype now (we used to sleep with skype ON every night)
Now she says to me that i have to move on. She says Neither she is not divorced, nor she has any intention to get divorced due to her kids. She says that if she gets divorced, i would be the first person to know about it, but as long as she is married, she doesnt want to talk much about me and my feelings for her.
MY QUESTIONS:
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New chart im casting right now having major questions in mind:
Will she get divorced? If yes, then when is it going to happen? Because from what she is telling me, it is the biggest hurdle in our relationship?
Is it the current husband/divorce factor, or some other factor which is making her pull away from me?
Im not commenting on the new chart as i want our experts to comment.
I have been into a relationship for the past almost 2 years, and it has seen a lot of ups and downs since then.
I met this lady through facebook in July 2011 and we became friends. She is married but seperated, having 3 kids, 1 permanently living with her husband and other 2 spending time with both.
We became friends immediately, and i had going through a major major break up in those days. So she was kinda helping me out with that. In those days, she was also having disputes with her husband, details of which i got to know later. She gave me hints , that helped me understand that we were mutually attracted, and i also realised it. Finaly in on December 26th i tried to express my self and we ended up having a fight, and then we never spoke to each other for next 6 months.
Then again in last week of July 2012, i called her up randomly for something and our feelings got ignited again. All this time , i was thinking about her, and she also said to me that she had been thinking about me. I told her that my feelings for her were genuine and she acknowledged it.
We were again all over each other, and started even making love with each other. She said that she had accepted me as her husband already because her real husband did not exist. I told her that she has to take divorce, but she gave me the rationale that she has accepted me, and it is all about what you feel. So i also started thinking about it in this way.
So , after we got back together in July 2012, up till now , there have been number of differences and disputes and complications, we always got back together.
We were spending almost every minute together all this time, as we were connected on messengers, phone and sleeping with our skype cameras on so that we see each other when we get up in the morning. If she got afraid in the middle of night, she would call me and ask me to stay up with her till she sleeps again.
In the last week of April 2013, i asked her to tell me what is she going to do about every thing. We also had a fight on 28th April, but we reconciled. But the answers she gave me were too confusing then.
I had made some astrological predictions for us as well, according to which, her divorce process would get initiated somewhere in April 2013. The talks got started but ended fruitless as all of the family members think it will get resolved with time.
Since, my predictions missed the timelines, therefore I would now want to put this matter in an open forum with new charts for other experts to come and comment on the situation and guide me.
She asked me to make her chart:
-------------------------------
She asked me to cast a chart, in which she wanted me to see, what was the future. So on her behalf phrased the question "Whether it is going to work out with her husband?" The chart that was made is attached as (Wheel ).
Saturn Retrograde in House No: 01, straight NO. She being Venus, and her husband being Mars (Detriment), no aspects between them.
One conjunction between Venus and Jupiter (Detriment) which is ruler of her fifth house, 6 degrees away from perfection. I don’t know whether to place myself in her 5th house is appropriate. If yes, then my situation should actually be getting better due to the applying conjunction between venus and jupiter. Whereas apparently it is not.
Week ago, in order to reconcile we were talking and I told her that she knows that im honest with her, and she has to be honest with me as well.
Situation Now:
------------------
We do talk but she is actually pulling back from me as she says she doesnt want to talk much to me. It actually started happening from 11th of May 2013. She delays answers to my BBM messages. Frequency of our late night talks is going down. We don’t see each other on Skype now (we used to sleep with skype ON every night)
Now she says to me that i have to move on. She says Neither she is not divorced, nor she has any intention to get divorced due to her kids. She says that if she gets divorced, i would be the first person to know about it, but as long as she is married, she doesnt want to talk much about me and my feelings for her.
MY QUESTIONS:
-------------------
New chart im casting right now having major questions in mind:
Will she get divorced? If yes, then when is it going to happen? Because from what she is telling me, it is the biggest hurdle in our relationship?
Is it the current husband/divorce factor, or some other factor which is making her pull away from me?
Im not commenting on the new chart as i want our experts to comment.