Hi, and I am sorry that you are experiencing such difficulty.
Just looking at your dominant [angular, in is dignity, ruling the asc] Mars, which is your masculine energy:
it both squares your feminine relational planet, Venus,
and
it also rejects Venus by reception [Mars does not like Venus because Venus is clothed in the the sign of Mars' fall, Cancer].
This is kind of an adverse double whammy from Mars not getting on with Venus [matured, feminine relationship].
All of this makes me think that it might be
you who doesn't really get on well with women, that you may be seeing them through a somewhat distorted, Arian lens. Mars in Aries is notorious for having a short fuse when things do not go one's way; even the smallest things. That is not particularly helpful in trying to form warm, committed relationships with fallible, frail, error-making humans of any kind, male or female.
Another matter for consideration is the trine between Sun and Saturn. While the trine is a favorable energy flow between them, the reception between them [that is Saturn's rejection of your mighty dignified Sun in Leo] points to adverse self worth concerns. And often one's inability to recognize and claim one's inherent goodness and value can get in the way of any relationship, as well.
Of course in the end, it is for you to figure out how to remedy this matter, if in fact you really do want to have wholehearted and warmhearted relationships with women. If you do, [because they can be really wonderful; perhaps at times the best there is
], then you may need to put yourself into different circles of women and see if you don't find more wholesome candidates for friendship? And you also may want to take a clear-eyed and compassionate look at yourself, your judgments and responses to others' failure and foibles, to see what you can loosen up and make more flexible, kind and compassionate both toward others as well as yourself?
So that you may be assured that you are bringing
your most wholesome self to the opportunity for friendship as well.
I am truly wishing you the very best.