It's complicated. (Aren't they always?)
The moon shows your emotional stake in the matter, some would say it is your co-significator. It is very strong in its own sign of Cancer. Its next major in-sign aspect is a square to Mars. The moon is in his turned 12th house.
With Aquarius rising, you are symbolized by Saturn, the traditional ruler of Aquarius. He is symbolized by the sun.
The sun's next aspect is a square to Saturn, in the 12th house. Squares indicate a connection but generally one that is difficult: there's not a smooth, easy flow.
I would use Venus for another love-interest, but the sun does not aspect Venus. I don't think he's interested in her.
The 12th house rules things hidden and secretive, even deceptive. I'm wondering if there's just too much of a cat-and-mouse game going on here, that ultimately is unproductive of any kind of easy friendship or romantic relationship.
I would suggest that you just leave things as they are for the moment, and try to relax around him and your hopes about him. If he ultimately fancies you, he'll probably let you know about it eventually.
Games + secrets + even deception! Sigh. Both significators in the 12th/turned 12th Houses. Not a good mix at all. That's really telling.
I think we have broken up + gotten back together too many times for anything healthy to happen now. And when I saw that Sun was debilitated in Aquarius, I knew it, even though I already knew it.
This is really good though. Thank you, Waybread, for the calming words! I need to close this old chapter and move on. I’ll wait a month and see if there’s good news in a new horary about whether or not I will meet someone soon
I will definitely not make anymore moves in his direction. But I won't sit doing nothing. In the meantime, I will dream up the perfect mate for my next "empty nest travel adventure” chapter. I think that’ll help me identify him easily when I see him and it might even help me manifest him into my life, someone I really want to share my time with. Someone who adores me!!! Not someone who is repelled by me.
I'm more grateful today than I was last night with your analysis, Waybread. But I am grateful nonetheless
And thank you, to Tikana + Ilene too in this beloved community, for sharing your wisdom!!!
Jozi!