The mentioned love life circumstances are represented in the chart by Ven's participation in two triangles: (i) the 180-135-45 triangle among Ven-Sun-Moon, and (ii) the T-square among Ven-Moon-Sat. Doesn't help that, separately, Mars is 135 Nept (12 min orb).
The square-in-the-sky (T Uran 90 T Pluto) is temporarily lying in just such position to turn these triangles into a QuadraZoid (with 45, 90, 135 and/or 180 aspects temporarily formed by the two transiters among all of Sun, Moon, Ven and Sat), thereby, exacerbating both the underlying circumstances and the desire for answers (e.g., since T Uran is on your Sun there may be sudden changes in your life circumstances that sting while also liberating your deep core life purpose and which are also tough on your heart and daily mood space).
The transiting effect will ease off from late September (though return briefly later) none of which suggests the solution you request.
It is helpful, however, that your Sun is novile Sat (42 min) giving you the ability to find satisfaction in complying with rules and regulations.