UraSatVen1029
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I keep reading that people with this aspect are usually charming, graceful, are good in social events, magnetic (?), lovers-not-fighters, diplomatic, vain, egoistical, lovers of art, music, poetry, or anything aesthetic, famous and well liked socially, attractive (physically and personality-wise), could attract anything they want or who they want....
Tell me, how true is that?
I understand this could play out differently with different signs and also with different aspects. But in terms of general influence, how much of that is true? Do you feel like you're charming? Do people usually like you? Do you tend to get "lucky" by being charming and attractive? By being poised and graceful? How tied are you to your relationships? Do you think your ego depends on what OTHER PEOPLE think of you? Or how well -loved you are?
I,myself, have this conjunction in just 16 minutes wide of an orb. It's in Scorpio. I'm guessing Sun is considered stronger here than in Venus, but I can still resonate with some of the things I've said above. I can (at least) turn the charm on, but I'm not really dependent or even confident with it either. I don't know if I'm considered physically attractive (because it always depends) but personality wise, yeah maybe. Or maybe not. I tend to be a "people-pleaser" sometimes, so I find myself adjusting to other people's needs just so that they can feel appreciated. I'm very diplomatic, because I hate conflict. I despise it. But this can be very bad for me as well, as I also have the tendency to gloss over things and not resolve them anymore.
But as for love life, do these people have it easy? I... don't. I think I can attract some guys with just my usual eye contact/staring, or by playing hard to get, but my love life is not very active. I've only had 2 significant relationships, but it makes sense because I'm a scorpio and I'll only get myself involved if its the real thing. But other than that, I'm not the kind of girl that makes the guys have "heart eyes" over me, or recieve some flowers and stuff. I sometimes get eye contact with other guys when I walk by or when I'm in the same room. But that's also just natural. Maybe other factors can support this instead of Sun-Venus though.
But generally, how would this play out?
Tell me, how true is that?
I understand this could play out differently with different signs and also with different aspects. But in terms of general influence, how much of that is true? Do you feel like you're charming? Do people usually like you? Do you tend to get "lucky" by being charming and attractive? By being poised and graceful? How tied are you to your relationships? Do you think your ego depends on what OTHER PEOPLE think of you? Or how well -loved you are?
I,myself, have this conjunction in just 16 minutes wide of an orb. It's in Scorpio. I'm guessing Sun is considered stronger here than in Venus, but I can still resonate with some of the things I've said above. I can (at least) turn the charm on, but I'm not really dependent or even confident with it either. I don't know if I'm considered physically attractive (because it always depends) but personality wise, yeah maybe. Or maybe not. I tend to be a "people-pleaser" sometimes, so I find myself adjusting to other people's needs just so that they can feel appreciated. I'm very diplomatic, because I hate conflict. I despise it. But this can be very bad for me as well, as I also have the tendency to gloss over things and not resolve them anymore.
But as for love life, do these people have it easy? I... don't. I think I can attract some guys with just my usual eye contact/staring, or by playing hard to get, but my love life is not very active. I've only had 2 significant relationships, but it makes sense because I'm a scorpio and I'll only get myself involved if its the real thing. But other than that, I'm not the kind of girl that makes the guys have "heart eyes" over me, or recieve some flowers and stuff. I sometimes get eye contact with other guys when I walk by or when I'm in the same room. But that's also just natural. Maybe other factors can support this instead of Sun-Venus though.
But generally, how would this play out?
