Hi Lion o ness,
I want to learn how you can tell in a Natal Chart how a person will meet a partner..
I don't know if this is discernable with precision. I think you might be able to tell under what conditions someone might be inclined to meet a romantic partner, or what kinds of romantic partners they are interested in, and where to find them.
Is it Sun/Mars for women?
and Venus/Moon for Men?
That might work, if the women in question are strictly interested in men, and the same going for men who are strictly interested in women. I personally am much more open, and think that a number of factors go into, for both sexes, what kind of partner they would want, and where they might meet this person. A woman as much as a man will want someone who is compatible with their moon. I would look at the overall energetics of someone's chart.
Then depending on house/aspects?
Yes, house placements would definitely have some sort of an impact, but more on the native, rather than the people I think. If someone has Venus in the First House, chances are they are more inclined to put themselves out there for someone to meet them. I don't think this would mean they are more attracted to say, an Aries or someone with a strong Mars, though they may experience, if only briefly, a certain affinity.
Plus some houses I can figure out.. Say H6 means while working, or maybe a place with animals? H9 might mean traveling or a foreigner??
Well, I'm not really sure. In Equal House, I have Venus in the Ninth, and I definitely feel some comfort and connection with foreigners, but no one I have ever been with has been a foreigner.
But H1,H7... Where is that?? If someone can list the "wheres" for each house..
I don't know if you can list locations based on these placements. I think there are too many factors that come into play. I have my Moon in the First House, so I have no issue connecting with anyone ever, and I have Sun in the Seventh House, so I am naturally drawn towards one-to-one relationships. I am not a serial dater though, and so I would chalk that up to my Venus in Placidus being in the Eighth House, suggesting I take my affections very seriously. I think that House Placement doesn't tell you where, but how someone meets others.
-LR