ChildOfVenus
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I mean do you have to be with the person you want to have a child with?
Would you have a child with someone even if you don't want to be with them?
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ChildOfVenus
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Why? You think you have to be married or be in a relationship with the person who you have a child with?
Why would you want a kid from someone you're not in a relationship with? Lol, you have Uranus on your fifth house cusp. You'd be the type to do this kind of stuff.
AppLeo
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Well, I don't care honestly.
People can raise their children however they want.
But if I were going to have a child, I'd want a close relationship with the person I'm creating a child with. I think children tend to grow up healthier and happier when both their parents are close and in the same house. But what do I know?
ChildOfVenus
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Lol I just mean do you actually have to be in a relationship with the person who you have a child with?
That's not what the title implies and you know it.
AppLeo
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Yes you actually do.
Screwing someone and then just ditching them leaves them with the responsibility of the child only, when actually it's both parents responsibility to take care of the child.
ChildOfVenus
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I understand I mean for example let's say if you met a woman. You liked her to a certain extent but didn't want to be romantically involved with her. Yet you wanted to have a child with her because you like certain qualities she pocessed.
If she has such good qualities I would probably wanna marry or date her anyway.CancerEvolve
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No...
Cancer sun and Jupiter in 5th.
Cancer sun and Jupiter in 5th.
ChildOfVenus
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Well I don't feel like I would have to be with the person. I'm not sure what Uranus has to do with it.
You'd probably let yourself get knocked up on the first date with some guy you don't even like but because he has some 'good qualities' you'd be oke with that. That's some Uranus stuff right there.
AppLeo
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If I ever have sex with someone, it will be because I am romantically in love with them.
Romance + Sex are intertwined for me. I cannot understand people who are not. But then again, I have Mars in Cancer.
ChildOfVenus
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No not on the first date no and not with just any guy.
I highly doubt that
ChildOfVenus
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You would only have sex with someone because you are in love with them? Romance and sex doesn't always go hand in hand.
AppLeo
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ChildOfVenus
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If that were the case I would have been pregnant a long time ago.
AppLeo
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Yeah, well, fries and ketchup don't always go hand and hand, but I need to have ketchup with my fries because I can't fathom fries without ketchup. Fries by themselves are not great. Just like sex without deep love isn't that great either.